Search Results: physical looks

Basically, women who are beautiful and have the world at their finger tips, with unlimited dating options, ending up single and childless due to not lowering their standard and/or being more practical to holding out for some perfect, guy that will never come.

EXAMPLE

Kelly Hu was 34 years old in 2002 when the scorpion king dropped

She could easily have gotten a very decent man for a husband and possibly have kids. Now she is 55 years old, single and childless.

Sure, she can still find a guy now to commit to her, but I guarantee you that it's not a man she would have wanted in her physical prime and most likely is not her best option aka. she would have to settle. And with kids out the picture, not a lot of high, quality guys will take her seriously for long, term relationship.

And we see examples like this all the time, even with average and below average women. Whereby, they hold out for some perfect guy, turning down decent male partners, or raise their standards so high that the only guys who qualify are men who don't want them.

As we know, most women find the vast majority of men physically unattractive due to not being born with physical traits out of their control. These traits include, race, height, skeletal frame, early male pattern baldness, hair colour etc. We also know that women in their prime tend to hyperfocus and date the hottest and/or richest men and often use sex to try to secure a relationship. Granted, some women are smart enough to lock on an average guy, who shows high potential to be a successful earner and gets him to commit to her early.

Now, for the men who this doesn't apply to, they are basically told by women to "work on themselves", which basically means to grind and make tons of money, so when women are ready to settle down (usually by their late 20s to early 30s), they have a nice retirement plan to look forward to. Women will use the fact that this group of men are sexually/romantically inexperience, as well as, desperate to reel them into commitment. Sex starts off enthusiastic to hook the man in to the relationship. Women are also on their best behavior and guys are lead to believe that this will be the baseline more or less.

Eventually, when an average man marries a woman, another layer of security is put in place that basically ensures the man pays a hefty price if he ever leaves the woman. This is usually in the form of spousal support an/or child support. Thus, women no longer need to have sex with you, since she has you shackled to a contract that says you provide for her in or out of the relationship. Sex is used as a reward for good behavior/out of duty and not because the wife generally wants to sleep with their husband. Sometimes, women will stop sleeping with their husband all together, despite his best efforts, and men feeling neglected often seek sexual relief else where.

Example, this sex therapist is able to make 500k/year by sleeping with men whose wives have stopped sleeping with them.

To begin with, I have lost track of how many cousins I have in total. I was in touch with my maternal cousins until when I was a 5 year old boy. But that’s a question for some other time. Soon, my family shifted to another state for better living. And I got completely disconnected from all of them. Life continued until one of my female cousins whom I knew as a kid, and her mother came to stay with us for a tour of the city. All I knew about her is her name and that her father left their family and ran away, leaving her mother alone with three kids. Now, she is a 26 year old attractive female. She was quite friendly from the beginning and we went to several places to visit. In one of our conversations, she told me that she didn’t have a boyfriend ever. Which was almost impossible for me to believe. During all of the trips, she held my hands wherever we went and always stayed together except when we were asleep. She would tell me that I look more handsome in-person than in my photos. And I told her that she is indeed very beautiful.

As for myself, I am a 22 year old male and never had a girlfriend nor had anything physical my entire life. That could be because of my upbringing, as my parents are one of the strictest I’ve ever seen and I am not kidding. For instance, I had very limited access to a smartphone, television or even a computer with access to internet till I was 18.

For some reason, I felt that she was everything I have been looking for in a partner. And I did have the guilt. Even when we were sitting in-front of our parents, she kept touching my hands and hair. And our parents also didn’t bother. Cuz we’re family! She seemed like a joyful and carefree adult like in the movies. Life would be easier if there was a person like her with me. Her vacation came to an end and we went back to our lives. I would look at our pictures here and then to remind me of her. It’s been a year since then and I am still trying to find a partner.

Don't you think women are more attractive looking than men in general and that their physical attributes/features are more aesthetic and pleasant than men's?

Just for the record it is not racist if you just find certain ethnicities physically attractive.

Physical attraction isn’t a choice. Race is also a bullshit victim excuse some people use who can’t handle rejection (if it was due to looks). If a minority girl isn’t physically attracted to me because I’m white then she’s just not attracted to me. I might be disappointed but it’s just how it is. Not her fault because physical attraction isn’t a choice.

However if you do find someone of a different race attractive but won’t even give them a chance because of unfair prejudices that’s a different story. It’s one thing if you took the time to get to know them and you just found them incompatible. But quite another if you intentionally stayed away despite finding them attractive otherwise.

Anyway I have have dated outside my race plenty of times. But often found these women brought up racial differences more than I did. I had an Asian ex girlfriend who would say “ah white people” occasionally when she was frustrated with me over something. It didn’t bother me the much because she was young, beautiful and in love with me for a long stretch. But I rarely brought up race when dating and if I did it was usually positive (she was a good cook).

But still I truly believe women consider race more when it comes to dating then they will admit (white girls especially won’t admit that).

Again I do NOT think it’s “racist” to admit you don’t find a certain ethnicity attractive (but respect them otherwise). But I think women are secretly more picky about this.