I’ve been married for 9 years and she and I have been together for 18 years or so. I want to tell her that I am infatuated with her dirty underwear?

[Fred245]

She and I still have a fantastic physical love for each other , maybe me a little more than her but it’s great. To substitute the days she is busy or we don’t have the right time to get together. I find myself more and more looking for her used underwear. I’d like to tell her but I’m nervous she will take it the wrong way. I respect her and I want her to still respect me if I tell her.

thoughts ladies

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+1 y

FYI -not 24 , n my early 40s

[SueShe]

Let me see if I read you correctly. You are 24 years of age according to your bio. You are married since 9 years, which makes you a child when you got married (24 - 9 = 15). You must have had the consent of your parents, right?

Now, still being 24 years old, you were together for 18 years (24 - 18 = 6). You were 6 years old when you got together. Children do that but go home in the evening when their parents tell them to come home. Your parents are formidable to have let you be together with a little girl at age 6. Where do you live?

Also, you fornicated a child at age 15? Even as a child, copulating with another child at age 15, there must be a name for that kind of behavior. Again, where do you live?

Finally, being infatuated in objects leads me to believe that there is something definitely wrong. I just don't know where...

[Fred245]

No , I’m in my early 40s didn’t see the age section and still can’t change it. That probably tells you I’m not 24🤣

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[Anonymous]

Oh. OK well maybe I'm weird but or like weirdos but, deeply inhaling, chewin, more inhaling your woman's "dirty" underwear is usually par for the course. It's the first sort of "kinky" (but not really) thing that happens. Is she more vanilla? Why do you think this wouldn't be incredibly flattering for her? Is she more reserved? Prudish?

[Anonymous]

If you’re married that long and know each other that long I don’t think it would be a problem telling her about it

[boggboss]

Do u not have a open relationship where u are able to talk about fetishis

[Avicenna]

You might want to keep that to yourself

[Apple1996]

Just tell her. Not like it's a big deal

[Curiousminds2017]

Why do you want to tell her?

TBH there is no value to telling her. However, you risk the fact of her not understanding and being confused by your actions.
IMHO some things need to be kept to yourself.
Partners don’t need to know every detail of personal sexual gratification and fantasies.

[Nikki1989]

Don't say anything. I can't imagine any woman wanting to hear this from any man.

[DermalPunch]

It's so flattering. I love to see my guy deeply inhale my undies.

[BlackBeauty90]

Why? Why do you have to tell her? Do you want to be seen in some sort of weirdo

[ElyJackson]

Depends how it is stained. Women have discharge and it can go to their underwear.

[Anonymous]

I'm not married and quiet young but depending on the nature of your relationship, I would say go ahead and it may be spice things up.

[In_Trance]

So talk to her about it

[Fred245]

That’s my gut feeling. Thanks for your input

[boobliker]

just tell her but not at dinner