Honestly they make me want to die sometimes. They are pretty bad, been like that since puberty. I cry if I look at them too long, I feel like crying when trying on bras and I'm completely disgusted when my boyfriend touches them. I avoid touching them. They look like male gynecomastia and this is especially hard for me as I have several issues that are usually more common in men (I'm an actual woman before anyone asks) I don't think I will ever be able to afford surgery, and honestly with my shit health chances are it would go badly. I'm so done with it, it feels like I'm all alone in the world with this deformity, most people don't even know what it is. I can hardly find actual pictures of it online. I would probably be able to get over it somehow if it was one single insecurity, but my face and body have so many things shaped in an ugly and uncommon way or have chronic conditions that affect my apparence and it's hard to deal with all of it. It makes me feel like my entire physical form is a failure and while I didn't choose it I will have to suffer with it. I wish I was like these girls with a big nose or small boobs looking great otherwise. I would be able to either get over it or get one surgery if I could afford it. I'm just so, so done. I'm asking as I want to listen to the experience of other women, even if I doubt I will even come across someone with this issue on here
Any woman with tuberous breasts? How do you live with it?
I live with slightly tuberous breasts! But they’re more conical/ski-sloped but still unusually pointy. And I have big puffy nipples. They’re something I’m struggling with but learning to love
At first I hated them also because I grew into them so fast when I went from flat chested to a 34B in my mid twenties. I really wished for big round ones and now I have two pointy cones.
Maybe a change of perspective or mindset, I’d like to thank my ex for telling me. When we first got intimate and I showed him how they looked like (I was so nervous!) he was definitely weirded out, but eventually with all the touching and sucking he said they were “unique” and “erotic looking” coz my breast shape and firmness was something he’d never experienced before and they really turned him on. So I’d like to think we’re ‘unicorns’ or ‘rare Pokémon’ that defy beauty standards.
Either than that, try seeing how to fashion around the kind of chest or wear specific bras that can help shape it. Or draw attention elsewhere.
For perspective, they look like this. I hope my advice helps!
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