Some of my convo with such a man
-So I am saying we should date and marry.
-Doesn't matter what you're saying. My no is the most important thing here. I will marry my best admirer (looks, personality wise).
-In order to find "the hottest", you have to check them all out and measure how much lust you feel for each. Therefore, you can be promiscuous and yet a physical virgin.
-I want to be only with 1 man. How is this promiscuity?
-That's the thing, it's not actually 1 man. It's a type, which is why you find certain stock images of a random man "hot".
-But I feel an urge to belong to only one man. So if I meet a hot man, he asks me out, we vibe away, we get emotional connection and he asks me to be his official girlfriend what should I do? Reject him?
-Sure, because I am already here and willing to be of comfort, love, commitment and support for you.
-I can't let a man who i feel 0 lust touch me. I would vomit from disgust.
-Just like the rich man who refused to give up his riches to the poor. I'm sure he would vomit at the thought of impoverished people touching his money.
-There will be more than one man who will feel the same way you do. I can't consider you all. My body will belong only to the man I feel lust and emotional connection. No other men get to touch me.
-What if you meet a more attractive man that you lust after when married? Do you divorce and get with him or do you feel sad to be stuck with a less attractive man
-No. The idea of having a second man turns me off.
-Well that's good actually. So if you're with me, then you wouldn't be sad or desirous of another man.
LOL this man can't take my no. Can't count how many times I said I feel no desire for him.
By the way we have never gone on a date. No physucal touch has been between us. I've never said I want him.
