What personality trait of a man is it to keep chasing a woman who rejects him each time he asks her out?

[marish01]

I believe it is low self-worth and selfishness.

No contradiction here.

I'm angry by the way. I hate when a man doesn't understand my no. It makes me angry and scared at the same time.

[JayBones]

I am a father of three girls raised by a single father. My Daughter taught me something recently. A few months ago while I was talking to my oldest she'll be 15 next month told me that this boy likes her and she wants nothing to do with him because he told her she was wrong about pokemon when she knew that she was not. He kept going up to her at the dance and she politely told him that she does not want to dance. She said his dad was there and he kept egging him on to persist. I think this is the answer to your question. Some parents teach boys to be assholes. He may have even learned it from watching his dad. I have since talked to his dad and told him to tell his creepy kid to leave my daughter alone.

[Anonymous]

lol this right here show why women can’t be in positions of power… most women want to be pursued in dating. They want to be chased. But when it’s a guy they aren’t attracted too at first.. they get mad and say “well, why can’t they understand no mean no..” if guys would STOP SIMPING over these low interest, non worthy women it would force women to re-evaluate there goals and values. Just like I will never under idiots that pay subscription a month to watch a girl fuck her boyfriend on the internet. Freaking pathetic.


I wouldn’t chase. I don’t chase waste of my time and money.. I’ll show interest and make it known I like a girl. If she doesn’t reciprocate by the next day it’s on to the next not waiting around for a female to make up her mind.. nor am I investing in you financially more then I can get a drink from the vending machine. It weeds out a lot of bullshit women who aren’t there to get to know me.

[marish01]

If I fall in love I won't reject when he asks me out.

[marish01]

And I agree that it's pathetic to pay for porn or OF content

[Anonymous]

sounds lonley, desprate, and unaware. reminds me of incels, and pick up artists. its kind of easy to fall into that trap though. some people eventually figure it out. some never do. the key really is to be able to pick up on social cues quickly. that ultimately will deteremine whether you;ll be alone or not

[IslaTheWitch]

I would say too big ego...

Whatever it is... keep as far as possible from such men... I learned my lesson in a painful way...

[AviatorTom]

He is hoping that No... No... No... Yes means Yes.

[adam6402]

For someone who is bold and confident in their chances with you despite being repeatedly declined I'd say it's traits like persistence, arrogance, and self-importance.

But I've known some really introverted/shy guys with very low self-esteem and self-worth who persistently obsess over a girl way out of their league and continue over and over to get an answer that they're never going to get in a million years.

[Grond21]

You could be right. I think it is usually arrogance, thinking his continued offer will win you over. Which can happen sometimes, but only when he is being genuine and she is receptive.
Continuing to pressure her when she is clearly disinterested is scary, because then she feels unsafe with his judgment. He doesn't respect her nor care for her feelings. That is bad and potentially dangerous.

[IceCreamSandwich]

Selfishness and arrogance. That's what makes people not care if you are happy, as long as they are happy. Especially when they claim to love you.

[Miristheiss]

Someone who has watched too many movies and thinks a guy can pester/perceiver his way into love.

[Ironco]

So why do ladies play hard to get, then?

Why is it us men have to keep chasing?

Why can't you ask us out then?

Maybe you shouldn't blame us men for everything.

There will come a day us men won't ask you anymore.

[tzdc21]

More so if him just being a desperate simp due to a scarcity mindset.

[ChicoFromThe305]

I don't think it's a personality trait, it's just desperateness, if it's a personality trait it's gonna be a toxic form of clinginess.

[Berethor]

As @IslaTheWitch point out it not necessarily low self-worth, but selfishness yes.

[SpaceGalaxy]

True. There are many women too who do not know what the word really means!

[Joshydavid25]

He's either a narcissist, or he's desperate and really has fear and abandonment..

[AngryCarl]

It's a combination of perseverance and pig-headedness. Women like the first but hate the second.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Shameless for sure. I would be seriously embarrassed if a woman told me no and I kept asking.

I just wouldn't do it.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Stupid

[Billlewis]

He's an ass kisser, like me.

[exitseven]

He is persistent. I would not bet against him.

[OtterMan68]

low self-esteem

[BoopBoopBeep]

Pathetic.

[TallAnon]

It's lack of empathy

[Jennz6]

Pervert