What makes a man continue to chase a woman who says she isn't interested in sex or a relationship with him?

[7Phoenix7]

Why does he keep offering his heart to a woman that isn't interested?

[AydenHazor]

He's bought into the Disney/romance movie idea that if you keep pressing she'll somehow miraculously come to realize she loves him rather than acknowledging that she's not interested and he's bordering on stalking her

[7Phoenix7]

Lol.

[Joshydavid25]

His crush is already too big to let go.. He thinks that maybe if he keeps pursuing you'll see that he's persistent and eventually give in...

[7Phoenix7]

Yeah his persistence is what made me give him a chance. But then i knew after trying to date him that he isn't for me. Now after nicely, but clearly letting him know i don't like him in a romantic or sexual way... I guess the only thing I can do is continue to ignore his messages. Because what else can I do?

[Joshydavid25]

Yeah that's definitely that only thing you can do at this point.. He's knows the deal, but he's panicking internally and going in harder.. His dreams and feelings are exceeding the logic part of his brain knowing it's probably not gonna happen..

[Joshydavid25]

Thanks for MHO!

[Finchie40]

Because he is desperate as fuck and doesn’t know how to take No as an answer , He pretty much grew up with a silver spoon in his hand , he was taught that he is always right and never wrong , He always got his way , definitely someone you should stay away from , People
That have selfish mindsets are people that should not be getting into relationships period , especially people that can’t take No for an answer , they will never see any wrong on their doings because they don’t know what No means

[Billlewis]

Oftentimes we just want to spoil her and her boyfriend rotten and kiss their asses... lol

[7Phoenix7]

Lol how r u

[Bklynbadboy12]

Well some women are special. Their the type of woman you don't meet every day. So when you meet these women you have to shoot your shot. Go hard or go home that way if she never becomes yours you can honestly say I tried it just didn't happen

[7Phoenix7]

Lol he's definitely going hard but I need him to go home.

[Bklynbadboy12]

Did you seriously tell him your not interested and if that doesn't work tell him you have a man

[TheSpaceGnome]

I'd never do that.

He's a desperate loser if he does that.

[7Phoenix7]

We met like a little over a year ago. Became friends. He wanted to date. I tried it, and I'm just not into him in that way. More interested in his friendship. Now he won't give up trying to be more. It's getting ridiculous

[TheSpaceGnome]

He's being an idiot.

Block contact with him for both your sakes.

[Z1pTD]

The only logical reason would be because he knows she's worth it.

But then again, love isn't logical.

[7Phoenix7]

True

[bededazzle]

fantasy. you see things in her. ah this is the REAL her. she is scared and needs time. also, being younger

[LiamJHayden]

A belief that she is special or irreplaceable. That might be true as far as her being a genetically unique individual, but with four billion other women on the planet she is not from a potential relationship standpoint.

[BoopBoopBeep]

Because he's pathetic and forgot about the other 4 billion women out there.

[Amuere]

You might really really be his type and he believes he can "convince" you to reconsider if he works hard enough. It's stupid, but a lot of guys think like that.

[NathanDavis]

that's not yet, a man...

[7Phoenix7]

He is but, a child...🍼

Yes? Lol

[NathanDavis]

exactly that, lol...

and a whiny one, at that

[Anonymous]

Honestly? She's probably one of a half dozen others. She can say that as much as she wants and he can wait because in the meantime he'll be f***ing the others.

[7Phoenix7]

Yea that makes sense.. but he's still losing though because he's spending his money

[Opinion Owner]

More money can always be made spending money is just the price of doing business is pursuit of women. It's like investing. In investing their always a certain amount of risk. And not all investments pan out. But hopefully the k owledge you glean from that helps you in the next investment.

[7Phoenix7]

Well I already figured he was having sex with other women. It still doesn't make sense to spend a lot of money or invest in a woman that clearly doesn't want you. That's not smart to me. I hope you don't make those kind of investments in women lol

[Opinion Owner]

It's makes sense if your goal is to sleep with her.
No I don't make those kinds of investments in women. I really don't invest in women at all. But I am a guy. I know how a majority of men think. Do you have any idea how many of your gender says they're not interested in having sex right before she decides to have sex with him?😆 Most guys don't listen to what women say a vast majority of the time. Because what women say and what they actually do is almost never the same. "I'm not interested in a relationship or sex" just simply means "yet" most of the time. I was talking to former co-worker just last night that was bragging to me 🙄 about a former female co-worker he slept with that he'd been trying to sleep with for 5 years. Most of what he said was him TRYING to impress me (or belittle me. Because he's keeping score) with his conquests. Believe me, this s*** is tiring to me to. But you know what. She slept with him. I know this woman pretty well. I have no doubt she probably felt lonely and just gave in to him. Because he told her what she wanted to hear at the right time. He's an opportunist, guys like that exist unfortunately.

[7Phoenix7]

What? That guy is crazy, waiting 5 years lmao... I guess I will never understand some men. And you made me not like him even more now.. he's never getting any of this lol

[Opinion Owner]

Go back to my initial comment "she's probably one of half a dozen". In other words she wasn't the only one. He bragged to me about 4 different women in that conversation. You shouldn't like him, I don't! At least not when it comes to his views on women. But again, as I said. These women CHOOSE to sleep with him. So I can't put it totally on him.

[7Phoenix7]

He talked about marriage though.. like he said something like he could see himself marrying me. And that freaked me out and said he didn't mean right now. I don't think its just sex he's looking 4. But then again he could have been saying that to get sex too. Anyway thnx for ur input

[Opinion Owner]

👍👍👍

[jogeb907433]

I will never kneel before a woman.

[7Phoenix7]

Lol what about when you want to propose

[jogeb907433]

I won't do that.

[BLP11520]

Plain old fashioned stupidity

[7Phoenix7]

What do you think is going on in his brain? He's sending gifts to where I live? Is that crazy?

[BLP11520]

Desperation?

[BLP11520]

Most men see they are not wanted

[7Phoenix7]

He's actually wanted by some women. His past girlfriends are pretty. I even witnessed a pretty girl video calling him and inviting him to come party. He had a sexual relationship with her only I guess he didn't want to date her. He's not ugly or anything. I'm just not wanting to be in a relationship right now. But what is weird is his behavior after I told him I didn't want him

[BLP11520]

It is ( at work sorry for late response)

[7Phoenix7]

That's okay 👍

[exitseven]

hope springs eternal.

[ProbablyClueless]

Hope, in a word.

[Andres77]

Obsession?

[7Phoenix7]

Hope not

[Andres77]

If you said no, and no, and he doesn’t stop… that’s a problem

[7Phoenix7]

It doesn't make as there are other women interested in him. I got advice from a friend on here to send him a clear cut rejection. Which I did. Then he said, he still wanted to take me to a national park that he promised to take me to. I ignored his message. Then another day he sent more messages about something else. Recently he sent a message saying he sent some gifts to where I live. And jokingly said it was an accident.

[Andres77]

Then give him an ultimatum. A friend does not do what he’s doing. He is selfish and doesn’t care what you want.. either stops when you’re done and then you block him on everything

[Tomisworthless]

Persistence to change your view of him

[m1tch3ll]

hopes and dreams

[Anonymous]

Nothing, man dont chase women

[RedInnocent68]

Hormones

[CubaPirate]

Stupidity