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@StingRayxoxo wanted to see pictures of my furry girls so I am posting this poll with an invitation for you to post pictures of your cats or dogs.

In December, 2018, my girlfriend went to the mailbox one evening after dark. She saw a cat playing around the mailbox, near the street. She thought it was her cat - Chica - who lives outside, and she scolded it for playing near the street. She picked it up and bought it inside and then realized it wasn't Chica. It was Miss Kitty. She was about 6 months old.

We asked Miss Kitty if she wanted to say with us and she inquired about what kind of food we were offering. We gave her a bowl of Iams kitten formula and, apparently, she liked it. Gobble, gobble! She has been with us ever since that night. She loves to sit in my girlfriend's lap and has been her constant companion through my girlfriend's recent illness and extended recovery.

In March, we decided that Miss Kitty needed a companion. I went to the Humane Society and rescued Miss Ana. She was about 5 months old. When we got Miss Ana home, we realized that she had been a feral kitten. We have worked with her constantly and she has become affectionate and wants our attention. She is learning to jump and catch snack treats with her two front paws in midair. She is very athletic and very sweet. She and Miss Ana have become the best of friends.

So. . . do you prefer dogs or cats, both or neither? Do you want to post a picture?
(I am posting this poll in Family & Friends because, if you have a dog or cat. . . well, you understand. Maybe someone will change the category but I hope not.)

Does it ever seem odd to you that the very most people the world at large would deem foolish, that God paves a way for them to understand things of the spiritual realm better and give them guidance over unseen attacks? It frustrates me that agents of Satan like to thrill themselves by attacking a person they know is following after Jesus and righteousness who seems to be a little on the less brilliant side. They never go after enriched intellects who love Jesus and can hold their ground in serious debate matters. They have a tendency to go after the weak.

To be fair, it's also frustrating that many Christians go after the less intellectual who deem themselves as atheists who have mental problems instead of the more intelligent people who feel like they are atheists. We need to debate people who are of our intellectual levels.

Also, the people the world would deem as wise in the world and intelligent, can't seem to grasp the things of simplicity. God has confined their intelligence so that they have made themselves fools. They know very well that sometimes they lose at things but instead of crediting their opponent, they will just claim there is no findings to support being theist. People who are in darkness can't comprehend the light. Therefore, those who claim to be atheist would not be aware that only the Holy Ghost can convict them of their sin of unbelief. They stubbornly refuse to allow the Holy Ghost to open up their eyes to find belief.

Why don't atheists think to themselves that if the Holy Ghost is powerful enough to convict them of their unbelief, that He is a powerful being? Many men and women and boys and girls too have came to this realization that the Holy Ghost has convicting power to rid their unbelief. Many people on this site assume the Holy Ghost is too stupid or chose not to exist to do His work in their lives.

I'm a 22 year old virgin and that's partly by choice.

I've recently finished a college course where I got essentially bullied (feels weird to say that at my age in a college environment) about how I haven't had sex yet at my age. One of my three tutors being the worst for it: telling me to shut up because i'm a virgin, that I only have 8 years before I become a "wizard" and how i'll probably die alone. (not sure why it's any of his business, but that college course is behind me now).

Truth is: if it wasn't for the social expectations of "you need to have sex to fit in" I wouldn't really care that much. That's not to say that I don't want to ever have sex, but i'd rather it be with a partner than: "come on man! She'd usually be out of your league; you gotta do her! this could be your only chance!". My tutor made the point that if you have sex with 30 people then you don't care about your first and I understand what he's trying to say, but I'd feel more comfortable and probably enjoy it more if it was more about an expression of love with someone I care about rather done to just simply punch my V-card.

I'd much rather work on myself first: I have severe anxiety and am finally finding the courage to go out and talk to strangers; I attend social anxiety meet ups with others who have the same issues. I also attend the gym regularly in the hopes of toning into a body that I not only think will be more physically attractive, but also give me more confidence. That's not to say that I can't do this and have a relationship, but it just isn't that big a deal for me right now. I have had girls tell me they have feelings for me and while flattered, I just didn't feel the same.

So, should I feel bad about any of that?

I think I would like to try it to compare comfort because I mean, girls wouldn't understand the pain and discomfort of having what we have between our legs, calling it "Man spreading" when it is actually because we don't want to crush our dick and testicles.. T_T

But EQUALLY so, men couldn't understand the discomfort that women endure during periods or the discomfort of wearing bras and the weight of breasts in general, which have been proven to cause back problems.

My point being is-
Women shouldn't try to pretend to understand guys and shouldn't judge us just because we take up a little of the second seat because our groin hurts. And women should stop aiming all their hits at a guys dick, it isn't funny, it isn't okay to just "lightly" hit that area because it hurts a LOT so just don't do it. :'(

Men shouldn't try to pretend to understand girls bodies in general, we will never understand the pain they go through.
It is a mutual thing so why put labels on each other when we all just want to be comfortable?