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I was chatting with my crush yesterday. For context, he holds strong eye contact with me, teases me (we have a couple of inside jokes), he will stand close to me, we glance at each other from across the room etc etc etc.

The other day, I made a joke about not being able to run because I’d give myself two black eyes (a joke about my large breasts) and he looked away and belly laughed, which I think was a flustered reaction.

He then made a comment about me being blessed when I said I inherited my mums eyes and not my dad’s nose.

Yesterday, he was saying about how exotic the weather is. I argued and said it’s not, and he said “it’s balmy”. Sarcastically, I said “I’ll strip down to my bikini then, although the owner of the company wouldn’t be very impressed”. My crush then said “he won’t see you”.

And then, I said “I think everyone would be visually offended” and he smiled, walked away and said as walking away “you’re talking shit, you are”

What did he mean by this comment? Was he indirectly saying he finds me attractive?

Hi Ladies!

Ok, so true story, a good guy friend of mine once sat at our favorite bar and "outlined" all my attributes for me in a way that was just matter-of-fact, like a lawyer making a case for his client. In closing, he said, "... I've known all this since the first time I saw you. You just light up the room as soon as you walk into it, without doing anything at all. Any guy who can't see and feel that is nuts." He held up his Macallan and toasted me, which made me laugh and nudge him. It was very sweet and meant to get me out of the funk of the nasty things people were saying about me being a divorcee, etc.

Today's the anniv of his passing (RIP 2020, COVID), so he's on my mind. I didn't reject his incredible compliment, but I didn't really accept them and let them sink in till this month. Since this heart to heart five years ago I've had lots of compliments about different things and I always automatically deflect them as something kind the other person is saying. I don't take it to heart. Sometimes if a person goes on and on about something I did I'll blush, quietly thank the person and outline THEIR qualities, indicating that if I'm good at something it's because I have the benefit of working with THEM (which I also truly believe... no one really stands alone 100%). This morning I receive a compliment and I let it sink in a little... to my heart... and it was a great feeling. I think my friend sent this person my way with a kind word because I was feeling glum and remembering all our chats before he passed on...

Anyway, I got to thinking... how many of us don't know how to accept a compliment?

Take a moment to think about the nicest thing anyone's ever said to you. How did you respond? Did you ACCEPT the compliment or DEFLECT it?

I see him almost every day. He always smiles at me and we say hi. Sometimes I catch him staring at me as he is walking past, and then when I look at him, he smiles and says hello.

I notice him looking at me from across the room in the canteen.

He always smiles when he sees me. And in general, he looks grumpy and has resting bitch face. I’ve seen him interact with other people (e. g. the lady serving him at the till, and he had a neutral face).

When we talk, he is smiling/laughing for almost the entire duration of the interaction. He will also be fixated on my face/eyes and we hold eye contact. He will stare at my eyes for approximately 10 seconds or more. He also doesn’t move away if I move closer to him.
I was once chatting to him on his break, and I apologised and said “sorry, I’m keeping you from your break” and he said “no it’s ok”

There is probably more information but I can’t remember haha.
Based on this, could he be into me?