Why do some random guys on the internet make such a big deal out of someone being a woman?

[EzraIsShy76028]

Like seriously. The way they act is like they don't know the human population is 50/50 percent split male and female. They act like the human population is split 99/1 percent male and female or something. Like a woman is a one in a billion type of person.

Some guys in like online chat rooms or online video games or whatever go absolutely crazy when someone mentions being a woman. They don't even know the appearance of the person, don't know the age, not a single thing, etc, and yet they start going crazy.

I have been a pretty weird and creepy guy in my past, especially from like ages 11 to 13 or so, but even I wasn't this horny over someone just mentioning being a girl or woman.

Even I did an experiment on an online video game once. He asked if I was a man or woman. I said woman. And literally in all caps he said: "OMG OMG YOU'RE ACTUALLY A GIRL? OMG I LOVE YOU SO MUCH! GOT ANY PICS? HOW BIG ARE YOUR BOOBS? PLEASE PLEASE BE MY GIRLFRIEND! MARRY ME!"

It would be almost funny if only it wasn't sad and tragic.

[Douglas1180]

It's not so strange if you think about it. It's like walking through a forest and realizing a stick on the ground is actually a snake. You are immediately fearful even though nothing in reality has changed. It's called the power of the mind, the power of the archetype.

[EzraIsShy76028]

Really, hm? I THINK I understand what you mean, or at least partially, but not 100% sure, lol.

From what I'm getting it you're basically saying that when something is different than you expect it can cause strange feelings in you. Like if you think it's a stick but realize it's a snake, it evokes strong feelings. And in my original situation, if you think a person online is a man but realize it's actually a woman, it also evokes strong feelings.

Not sure if I'm 100% correct, but that's what I understood.

[Douglas1180]

Yes, that's what I meant. Do you not think that women have extraordinary powers over men?

[Hаwk_Tuаh]

What if there are several worlds in one reality? And some people focus all of their attention not only into one world (their "spiritual eyes" are closed) but inaide that world only one thing is on their mind.

The extraordinary powers are all breeding mechanisms, aren't they? Physical nature trying to widen its gene pool.

As you see evil as a mere misplaced good, it's not a stretch to call those horndogs evil. Their actions would be good if humanity desperately needed to diversify its gene pool.

[milknhoneyy]

They either do this, or they treat you like a child, or they treat you like you're subhuman. Typically it's one of the three.

[EzraIsShy76028]

Ah yes, I've definitely noticed this, lol. Being a woman is hard both in real life AND online, or so I've heard from women in my life both in real life and online.

Or worse, they do ALL three instead of just one of the three, lol. It would be almost funny if only it wasn't just sad and tragic for everyone involved.

I hate those guys online who act like women are responsible for all the problems in their life. Maybe their life has so many problems because they're just shitty people? Maybe it has nothing to do with women? But they don't think of that, did they? Lol.

[Abbycado]

I have not experienced this...

[EzraIsShy76028]

Hm, really? It might be just the spaces I hang around in, then.

Like gamers and anime fans or whatever are stereotyped to be pretty gross unhygienic people who live in their mom's basements who are desperate for contact with women. And the stereotype is not totally wrong.

But if you hang out in spaces with more "normal" and well-adjusted people on average, especially if it's more just your real life friends and family, you likely wouldn't experience this.

[Abbycado]

Yeah, I'm not into gaming at all, so maybe you are right. The most I do gaming are puzzles and sudoku on my phone from time to time. XD

[EzraIsShy76028]

Yeah, that's probably it then, lol. XD

By not gaming I'd say you're not missing a lot. A lot of gamers get way too into it for their own good, where they're neglecting everything else in their life just to game.

You probably have a better, more balanced life than those guys.

I unfortunately have an addictive personality when it comes to anything digital, but I'm at least trying to better myself, lol.

[Abbycado]

Hey, fair enough!

I will say that I am addicted to sudoku. If I start playing it on my phone, I will run through lots of them, frantically trying to beat my best times. XD

[EzraIsShy76028]

Haha, yeah. We are all addicted to our own different things I suppose. With sudoku in specific I have come across it some times in life through circumstances though I never understood how to play it, lol. It was usually there along with cross word puzzles and stuff for people to do when bored in certain locations. To me who knew nothing about sudoku it just seemed like putting in random numbers. Though in these cases Google and YouTube are my friend, lol.

Besides digital stuff I have always been quite addicted to writing. Writing but not reading, funnily enough. My attention span never allowed me to read books, though I always liked writing.

[Abbycado]

I could turn you into a pro at sudoku lmao.

[EzraIsShy76028]

Haha, I don't doubt that. We tend to be pretty good at the things we're passionate about and practice a lot. After all, practice makes perfect. I would like to say I could turn you into a pro at writing since that's my passion/skill, but with writing that doesn't quite work as writing is a personal subjective thing and not an objective skill like sudoku. Lol.

[Abbycado]

Ty you for mho!

[EzraIsShy76028]

No problem, haha. We also had a pretty good conversation for a few comments. That's part of the reason for mho.

[katiesmuff]

Because some random guys are ignorant!

[EzraIsShy76028]

Yup. That's pretty much all there is to it. Ignorant people say and do stupid things. They've probably not ever even hugged a woman besides their own mom, and in some cases not even. Lol.