It’s funny honestly like they put on this masculine dominant persona online but meet one in real life and they’re awkward and afraid of you.
If you’re shy and awkward around women don’t pretend you’re this tough masculine man online it just makes you look desperate
So many? So you're basically saying you've seen a lot of dudes act macho online and then you meet them in real life and find out they're awkward around you? How many is so many? Why are you meeting these men or why do you know these men?
Like, I know you're trying to call out online tough guys with this 'non-question question'... but it sort of makes YOU look desperate if you think about it.
I think you may have run into maybe one online tough guy and then he turned out to be an awkward desperate-for-pussy simp who was afraid of your rejection... When you really wanted him to call you names, slam you into a wall by the throat, and have his way with you, while doing things like spit in your mouth and slap your tiddies around. 😂🤣You couldn't respect what he really was though, and now you're making a sweeping suggestion that all the online tough guys are that way.
If it was more than just one guy... you are displaying behavior that suggests you habitually go for these internet tough guys, meet up with them hoping it will be a great meat up (get it, meat... instead of meet), and then you always get disappointed. Dare I say, that perhaps you're trying to be a hoe, but you have a bad habit of picking the wrong dudes online?
Whatever it is...
You know @stormmistress there was a time I posted lots of negative/critical questions about “modern women” on GAG.
However I recently made a decision to quit doing the “general” criticisms. I only post now about a personal experiences and how it relates to that girl in particular and maybe how to deal with women who act like her (segment)
For example I recently had a girl cancel a date unexpectedly about two weekends ago. We talked for for two weeks straight and out of nowhere (for no reason I could think of) she went cold. She acted VERY excited to meet up. I was careful to keep everything light and funny but never creepy when texting her. She brought up sex first but I was careful not to indulge it when I texted her back
It was very disappointing to say the least. I was upset for a few days and I did post about it. But that is something that related to a personal experience that I recently had.
Now I could have easily went off on a slew of negative questions/posts about negative generalizations about women in general after that but I didn’t. Reason being each situation/girl is different. I don’t like it when women use negative stereotypes about men to unfairly label me but maybe I have to think twice about how I stereotype women.
I didn't know we still had macho macho men 50 years later, but they seem like they would not be too interested in women in real life.
These keyboard warriors are all talk and no action.
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Rather obvious in general. Being online leads idiots to think they're safe to do whatever they want, granting them anonymity and the assurance not to be caught.
On the other hand there's the phenomenon of not being confronted with what really happens, like the pilots of a plane bombing some town. The pilot just pushes a button without seeing the results down on people in the bombed town. Online discussing removes some contact with real living beings, which is not a problem for people with some education and intelligence, but still a different situation compared to a real life encounter and discussion.
It's simple it's easy to create a persona, a mask or bravery online you have no repercussions, no one knows who you are, etc.
Hence the term keyboard warriors because they talk tough online but chances are they would never talk like that to you in person because they're cowards in real life.
That's why we have so many fake people online people who aren't being themselves but rather being a persona they've made for themselves, maybe it's the person they wish they were or maybe it's a defense mechanism who knows?
Lotta doms aren’t actually doms. People incorrectly think that sleeping with subs makes you a dom. A submissive person will submit to you because it’s in their nature, not because you dominated them. This behavior exists in women too. Girls saying they’re dommes, doninatrix, femdom, whatever, say they’re gonna get me to do all sorts of shit. They talk a big game until I hit them with the, “or what? What’re you gonna do if I don’t listen to you?” Crickets. And this same behavior is seen in men.
tl;dr 99% of people claiming to be dominant just want to be made to feel like they’re dominant.
Not wanting to be confrontational in public doesn't mean "fear of others." That's purely a U. S. mindset. You know who, in an interview, stated he'd never ONCE been in a real fight? Jet Li. He also said the most dangerous weapon one can have... is a smile. A former NVA officer in Vietnam said after the war about Americans "Out of all the people who tried to invade us, they were the most foolish. They announced everything they were going to do, you could hear them coming a mile away. You always knew where they were, and where they'd been." We all know how that turned out for the U. S.🤫Maybe it's because... while all those badasses in public have their 15 mins of fame... we KNOW where they'll end up... because like a bank robber, the ego gets fed, and they can't stop. When they self destruct, as they always do... someone has to step into their places.☺️The demise of the West.😁
Lot of guys want to be more assertive or are told that is "what a man is" reality is it is perfectly normal to be shy or flustered around women a man is attracted too. Due to my past work being shy is not an option so I am typically blunt, honest, respectful. I don't think I come across as flirty (mainly cause I genuinely don't know how)
Because they have a distorted view of masculinity that they can't achieve in person, they put on the person's of what they believe to be masculine online. It's actually really funny to watch someone, and I pity them lol
Personally I much prefer to be caring and considerate both online and in person and to treat people, especially women, with dignity and respect
I'm not shy around the type of women I want, which is extremely rare in western society. If there ever is an occasion where I do see them, I'd approach them.
I steer clear from girls that cake themselves up in makeup and wear designer brands, which seems to be the majority of girls in the west nowadays. It's usually a clear indicator that they're materialistic and would prefer you pay for their standard of life
u must be all these so-called "alpha" bs people... lol
The "macho" behavior is just posturing to cover their fundamental insecurity and feelings of inadequacy. They are awkward around women because they feel that if a woman gets to know them, she will reject them. The prevent this by never asking.
They've probably seen a Chloe Roma video, where she roasts some of these psychos on TikTok. And now they realize that it's only getting worse.
Dating today is a game of Minesweeper. And they're afraid to make even one simple mistake.
They are not even macho men, just assholes without basic manners, probably raised in a broken family structure.
They are?
Seems you're deflecting from your own insecurities instead!
I agree with you, unfortunately they try to mask their insecurity, that's why they behave this way.
Signs of a insecure and immature guy. Staying away from them is best.
It's because that's who they secretly want to be. So they pretend online.
LOL. Again it's online for a reason. People online are a bunch of fakes and liars and pretenders hiding behind a screen on a phone or computer.
They lie about their career they have, salary, martial status, relationship status, toughness etc.
m its all an act
its easy to fake it online n they be pretty good at it
but irl there is no screen to hide behind so yeah
It is what is known as ITG (Internet Tough Guy) Syndrome.
It goes both ways I suppose.
But really, I always tell people I am shy and so not to expect same in person 😁. But being shy doesn't mean I don't speak my mind
You telling guys what thy can't do is like me going to the beach and taking a leak in the ocean to try to raise the tide.
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