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Long story short, I (f 26) have been together with my boyfriend (m 31) for 6 years. As per usual, I visited my boyfriends apartment and brought us food as I always do and ask him what he wants. I do this since I find it awkward if I only buy food for myself to only hear his stomach grumbling. I never ask him to buy food since he's struggling, and I recently found out I make more than him.
Event: He went downstairs to get the food from Uber, and I had to go use the bathroom a bit before that (I heard his apartment door open, then close). Soooooo I got super curious and just decided to see what was behind the door he said not to go in. So I legit peaked inside and only saw the bright computer screen. And I was like cool this us where he plays his favorite game of Final Fantasy 14 and then while still in the door way and peaking in, I saw a second monitor with words on it and immediately closed the door and just sat on his couch waiting for him and the food.
3 weeks went by, and my grandmother told me not to tell him just to keep a secret (I just told her I went in a room, and he said not to go in). And it was just eating me up inside, so I decided to tell him. I was just like hey hun you promise not to get mad and he said he promised. And this was when he was apologizing to me after make me feel bad saying he wanted to make it up to me for making me feel bad (it wasn't serious but he kinda gave off the "Do YoU eVeN wAtCh/PlAy/KnOw Pokémon?" One day towards me in a group chat with his good friend who even said hey dude, that's cringe chillax. And when he said he was trying to make it up to me, I just kinda blurted out what I did 3 weeks prior. He said he's not mad, just disappointed. He never texted/called me first it was always me taking the initiative, but it hurts me he isn't even saying anything to me at all because he wants space. How much space time do I give him, guys? Any advice on how to make it up to him?
Event: He went downstairs to get the food from Uber, and I had to go use the bathroom a bit before that (I heard his apartment door open, then close). Soooooo I got super curious and just decided to see what was behind the door he said not to go in. So I legit peaked inside and only saw the bright computer screen. And I was like cool this us where he plays his favorite game of Final Fantasy 14 and then while still in the door way and peaking in, I saw a second monitor with words on it and immediately closed the door and just sat on his couch waiting for him and the food.
3 weeks went by, and my grandmother told me not to tell him just to keep a secret (I just told her I went in a room, and he said not to go in). And it was just eating me up inside, so I decided to tell him. I was just like hey hun you promise not to get mad and he said he promised. And this was when he was apologizing to me after make me feel bad saying he wanted to make it up to me for making me feel bad (it wasn't serious but he kinda gave off the "Do YoU eVeN wAtCh/PlAy/KnOw Pokémon?" One day towards me in a group chat with his good friend who even said hey dude, that's cringe chillax. And when he said he was trying to make it up to me, I just kinda blurted out what I did 3 weeks prior. He said he's not mad, just disappointed. He never texted/called me first it was always me taking the initiative, but it hurts me he isn't even saying anything to me at all because he wants space. How much space time do I give him, guys? Any advice on how to make it up to him?
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Update... We made up and talked throughly. No not make up sex (he'sa virgin and respects my wishes to wait until marriage even though Im not a virgin 😏), like an actual heartfelt conversation.
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