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This is something that baffles me and admittedly may have very well skewed my views on relationships and women's ideals.

So let me set the background. Multiple Surveys regarding Japanese women or Asian women in general were done to determine what they value most in any potential partner.(Keep in mind this is mostly native asians)

Now Many of them flat out said that the most important thing to them is income and status, and more often then not this is usually at the expense of anything else. Whats more most of them have claimed that they will flat out refuse to date someone who makes less then 5 Million yen or the rough equivalent of 50k U. S Dollars a year, again at the expense of anything else they may potentially like about the person.

But that's not the worst of it, See more often then not despite the fact that the man makes all the money (Keep in mind most of these women interviewed want to be stay at home housewives) The man pretty much has no say about how its used or spent, with the female dictating how it's used and I mean completely to the point where she decides how much money the man can have to spend for himself, which can be as low as 10 bucks a day.

So we basically have a situation, where men are generally viewed as walking atm machines, I'm just trying to wrap my mind around this and see how this is even remotely fair. Does anyone see anything fair in this because i don't...

"After Post College-Women start factoring money more. Money, status gradual become more important over looks for women because they realize. Oh shit life is real and a pretty boy face isn't going to cut it when she needs a stable, life.

The problem with a lot of women is they honestly, believe they care about personality not realizing they associate looks with personality. Humans in general do this but men are truthful in admitting they like looks.

When we see a good looking person we automatically default them as GOOD PEOPLE. If they act like an ASS to us on FIRST IMPRESSION, we can break that illusion but if they don't we see them as good. If a relationship develops we give said person A LOT of chances/put up with a lot of their shit that we otherwise wouldn't a less attractive person.

For an average looking person we are more equalized. We don't give them special treatment as a good looking person and tend to weigh them fairly on whether they have a good personality or not because we aren't star gazed.

For an UNATTRACTIVE person we try to be non-bias but those people are on thin ice. Any small transgression against us (that you wold have EXCUSE A GOOD LOOKING PERSON FOR) we us that to DEMONIZE THEM AS MONSTERS/BAD people because secretly PEOPLE want the outside to match the inside. This is where a LOT of the CREEP SHAMING comes from. Women essentially upset/not getting validation when a man they find unattractive approaches them.

Women's idea of your personality being "GOOD" also comes about from your status (POPULARITY). If plenty people like you then u must have a "great personality". Women are more conformist than men and follow what the tribe thinks.

And in a way a woman is also more trusting of you if you have LOTS of MONEY/RICH.

So you see when women say they care for personality they really mean they care about LOOKS, MONEY, STATUS. All these things determine whether a woman considers you have a good or boring personality."

So you got into a relationship with a great guy/girl.


1) Would you announce it on facebook or keep it a secret?

2) If you were to announce it would you list the persons name or keep their name a secret?




3) And lastly what determines whether you'd list the person's name for your relationship announcement or keep them a secret?