5 Reasons Why You Should Let Your Husband Be With Other Women

[brandonjoggles]

A lot of women are afraid of letting their man sleep or be with with other women - namely because they are insecure or afraid that he'll leave her for the new girl. I had these same fears when my husband first started having sex with other women - it was always a fantasy of mine, but it scared me nonetheless.

Those fears quickly faded when I realized that they were unfounded and irrational. At the end of the day, you just need to relax and let a man be a man. Here are 5 reasons why you should let your husband be with other women.

1. Just because he loves them doesn't mean he doesn't love you

I know it's scary but he can love you and love them. I know it's easy to become insecure or worry about him leaving you for them, but if he loves you then he won't. He will be with them and then he will come home to you.

2. You're being selfish

Why are you trying to keep him all for yourself? He should be allowed to do whatever (and whomever!) he wants.

3. It's hot

Have you ever seen the man you love have sex with another woman? Watching him pin her arms above her head, thrust into her firmly and then put his hand on her throat as he cums. It's the sexiest thing you'll ever see. I promise.

4. Don't you want to make your husband happy?

Men love and care for their wives, but that doesn't mean that they can't love and care for someone else. Don't you want the man you love to be happy?

5. Men want to roam free

Throughout history the "manliest" men have been those who were with the most women. In most historical works, you can determine the status of a man by how many women he sleeps with. Allow your man to be a man.

[xHoneyxBeex]

"A lot of women are afraid of letting their man sleep or be with with other women - namely because they are insecure or afraid that he'll leave her for the new girl." <---- Or, they just prefer monogamy.

Sorry, but my boyfriend is mine and I'm his. I will not settle for anything else. :)

[VickyRed]

I totally agree.

[AleDeEurope]

Ehh... no thank you.
You can say whatever you want, but there's nothing better than having just one girl. That ONE girl. If you have her, you don't want more.

[VickyRed]

You do know whether it's the guy or girl sleeping around, it makes sex meaningless as a result?

If I knew my man was sleeping with other women it would make him sleeping with me feel like I'm just one of many rather than feeling special. I wouldn't call myself insecure in my relationship as I know how special I am to him and that's what matters, but if he was with someone else as well when he looks at me it wouldn't feel special.

There is nothing wrong with being selfish and wanting your man to yourself, especially when what you do together is special to you. I wouldn't want any woman to get their hands on my other half, and I'd fight them for the right to call him mine and only mine. After all, I only share my love and intermate moments with him so I expect the same if he truly loves me.

Anyone who is willing to share those feelings and special moments with another woman, can you honestly say you wouldn't want to fight to keep those moments to only you or have you already given up as you know you wouldn't win if you tried?

[btbc92]

That is why men like that doesn't need to be married. Common sense. I don't want an adulterous man. That is NOT a man. And if thats a man to other women, they can have him. Thats a man full of problems and higher potential of an STD, and a marriage just waiting to fall apart.

[SvetlanaSavachenko]

I don't have a problem with it at all as long as he brings them home and I'm free to watch him fuck them or join in. I also want to be able to fuck other men at home and he's free to watch or join in. I don't believe people were intended to be monogamous.

[brandonjoggles]

Yeah, I don't allow him to have sex with other women unless I am there too. I want to watch. But I don't want to have sex with any other men, I don't like that.

[SvetlanaSavachenko]

@brandonjoggles Well if that's how you like it that's fine. I'm a horny nympho Slut so I like lots of sex every day from several men. I was married briefly to a guy who loved to watch other men fuck me and use me but he wasn't too willing to fuck another woman while I watched but he did several times. I'd always watch close up and when he nutted her I'd go down on her and lick her clean.

Do you clean up his messes he leaves in other women?

[LittleSally]

You're one of those sister wives, aren't you?

OR... wait for it...
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A DUDE (more like a boy really...)!

[Anonymous]

no that isn't being a man it is being weak. Show me a real man who can stay monogamous and not give in to temptation like a little bitch and that is who I want.

Sex is the most you can give a person when you care about them. Why would you want to go and ruin that bond with someone for most likely mundane sex.

If you haven't had the experience of being with the one and having awesome sex then fair enough go do it, I feel really bad for you but know when you are with the one you will find the sex so much better than anything you imagined you would never be able to go elsewhere.

My ex for instance, complete and utter man whore and then he met me and we broke up. He hasn't even had rebound sex and I know this for a fact as my best friend is also his best friend and he wouldn't lie when he knows I have moved on. The reason? He knows all ex before me was crap.

[WillowTree]

1. If I can give him all of my love as a loyal and loving wife, he can give me all of his as a loving and loyal husband. All of it.
2. Proudly selfish because I married him! Mine! My husband! No one else.
3. It's not hot if I don't approve of it.
4. If being with me doesn't make him happy, what the fuck did he marry me for?
5. Again, the fuck he marry me for? #commitment

[ginny_weasley]

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My man is mine and I am selfish about keeping him to myself and he knows that. If he wants to be with multiple women, then we are so done.

[brandonjoggles]

"If he wants to be with multiple women, then we are so done."

If you leave a man simply because he expresses his desires to you, then you clearly don't love him.

[ginny_weasley]

No, it means we aren't compatible in a relationship. Which is fine. However, if he can't be happy with one woman, then we're done. I clearly am not the only who feels that way.

[brandonjoggles]

But you've never even tried before. You're simply saying "no" without even giving it a shot.

[ginny_weasley]

Because I don't want to. I prefer monogamy. Always have and I always will. And to say I don't love him because I don't want an open relationship? That's out of line. I am his and he is mine of course I love hi.

[ginny_weasley]

*him

[SovereignessofVamps]

@brandonjoggles I know it's just you jk, but why don't they just have a dual open relationship?

[SarahsSummer]

To not want an open relationship is just saying I not only love him but I love myself.

[MusicLover8098]

That's nice and all, but if I had a girl who loves me, why would I ever want or need anybody else?

[Anonymous]

I would only be able to condone this type of thing if the wife was also sleeping with other men, in the same conditions. Otherwise it just looks like your lying to yourself. I mean how can you know how your husband really feels about your relationship, about his sex life unless you try it yourself? Hoe can you claim to truly understand him unless you walk in his shoes.

And if you can't; dont expect anyone here to walk in yours.

[NatashaJ]

Exactly why people have a hard time accepting the sister wives type of relationship is because it seems one sided. Like one person with multiple partners do your partners are able to get with other people or is only for your desire?

[Anonymous]

This is stupid, its like sharing your husband to other people. And obviously your husband doesn't love you if he were to have multiple women. there's no point of settling down, being married, and have kids when you want an open relationship.

[NatashaJ]

Caring for your emotions is not being selfish funny because men who date , marry or fuck multiple women, I wonder how they will feel if the women wants to be able to see other men this is why I think its backwards.

[lady8787]

brandonjoggles has obvious issues. doubt he is a woman. sounds like man and a very insecure one. if you determine a man by how many women he sleeps with, then he is not a man. A real man isn't any of the above. thats a coward.

[Anonymous]

I love it when women accept men as we are and don't try and change us!!! You are one of the good ones. Thank you. Also, I agree - it's so hot when your girlfriend watches you have sex with another woman. She will get insecure afterwards, but if you tell her you love her and comfort her, those feelings will quickly subside. All women should be this accepting. <3 <3 :) :) :)

[Opinion Owner]

@lovelywiz What the hell did I do wrong? Lol

I'm just saying that I agree with her...

[idkwtftoputhere]

Lollllll

[Opinion Owner]

@lovelywiz Don't project your daddy issues onto me... I can love a woman while simultaneously having sex with others. It's all about compartmentalization.

[Opinion Owner]

@lovelywiz Lovely

[Popo21]

This is stupid, accept "we man as we are"

What are you? A dog?

A lot of men can and choose to be a one woman man.

On the contrary, women can be with multiple men too.. how bout that

[lovelywiz]

@Popo21 exactly he is just brainwashed with that kind of thinking

[Popo21]

@lovelywiz I hate this whole new whiny, childish behavior that many men have adapted nowadays

"Boohoo men are just men" "wah, it's my biology" lmao and then it's worst when girls support them.

[lovelywiz]

@Popo21 I know right?

[SovereignessofVamps]

She should sleep with other guys...

[NatashaJ]

@Popo21 omg so true or those girls defending guys who bash our gender like wtf is wrong with you or do you need to suck dick so badly you agree to anything that asshole said?

[Popo21]

@NatashaJ Hahahah seriously, no self respect

[NatashaJ]

@Popo21 Exactly and when they use the freedom of speech bullshit like yo he calling you that you accepting that because your a dumb bitch I don't accept someone calling all women whores, useless to society or whatever else they say. Sorry then I actually will put a man in his place if he tries to say shit about me because I'm a female.

[Ratiocinative]

Any woman who gives her husband permission to sleep with other women is garbage. How can you expect other people to respect you if you don't respect yourself?

[Sugarbee679]

Wow. I respect your opinions but I disagree. It makes me and my boyfriend happy that we have each other and we don't want anyone else. He said he'd never have a threesome because it would hurt him to be intimate with another person. I've even asked him if polygamy was legal if he'd like that and he said never. So there are men out there who don't want to have three wives and who are content with one person.

[Anonymous]

Hell nooooo!! Never will i ever let my boyfriend be with another girl. I do not even allow him to look at or talk to other girls. You are one crazy woman for letting him go and fuck other girls!!

[Kylesar]

Any woman who lets me be with another woman isn't worth my time.

Fuck that. I don't want cling, but I want a woman who has some self respect

[Anonymous]

nope, i rather have that one girl i can give everything to. I want that one girl i can be special to every night... hold her, support her, talk to her, love her over and over again... i don't want 10 women... i want the one girl i love to be with me and only her :'(

[Unit1]

Not all men are like that. Believe it or not.

Not my type of satire mytakes.

[melme16]

Why doesn't he allow his wife to be with other men? Fair enough no?

[brandonjoggles]

I would never want to sleep with any other man than my husband, but if you want to then you should.

[melme16]

Then why is it ok for him to sleep with any other girls, including his wife, and not you?

This is pathetic. Like I said, its fair if he wants to sleep with other chicks, then expect me to do the same. Only fair..

[brandonjoggles]

The difference is that he wants to; I don't. You're only 21. Give it a few years; wait until you find someone that you truly love.

[melme16]

Honey, if a person truly loves you, they would NEVER sleep with another person. Its more sacred like that. You are only his and he is only yours.

Also with those terms, he might fall in love with another woman and leave you for her. I don't wish that upon you, I am just stating my concern.