Search Results: drifting apart

My peers from childhood and school are now parents and I’m childless. Why do I feel left out?

I know not everyone has kids but most my age 23-27 are having children or have kids. My best friend is married and has a son. We’ll she just had her son over the summer. She’s 25. Hearing the ladies discussing about their...

Anonymous

(18-24)

My brother spends less time with me. What can I do?

Me and my second eldest brother would get along like a house on fire. We spent a lot of time together but i feel now we are drifting apart. Since he met his girlfriend he spends 4 out of 7 days in her house. We barely see...

Anonymous

(25-29)

I'm thinking about making the woman I like something to express my feelings. Should I do it or not?

Me and my crush are both Voice Actors who met each other on Instagram. We recently got back in contact after drifting apart for a couple of years. We’ve been messaging casually just catching up with each other but I want...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

Boyfriend chose video games over me. How do I handle this?

I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years now and he has always kind of been into games. But today, he chose that new Zelda game over me and didn't even flinch. I feel like we're kind of drifting apart anyway and the only...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Was I wrong for accepting money from a man who liked me while I’m in. Relationship?

So I had a guy who liked me for years. He offered me money before but I didn’t accept because at the time I didn’t want to complicate things during the dating phase. I also knew he was a player and just was trying to not...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Break Up & Divorce

Why would a guy send flowers after a break up but not talk to you?

I've been seeing a guy for a few months, we were not officially a couple. Although he was always really nice to me, since the beginning I felt he had high walls up and was very closed off and reserved. When I try to talk...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Did I misread things?

So there’s this guy I like, we used to date back in school and I know he was so into me but we ended up drifting as you do when you grow up. fast forward 10 years…I have him on Instagram, have done for years, we...

Loulou94

Xper 1 Age: 31

My boyfriend broke up with me because he said I was too quiet. How can I get over this and do guys like shy/quiet girls?

I'm a little reserved, and I'm bad at initiating some affection in relationships. I just wasn't used to it growing up and had some bad times, so sometimes I just stand there bc I don't know what to do and I get a little...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Are my parents responsible for my failure to adapt to changes?

I'm their only child and can't really think of anything they ever did wrong. They are great parents that gave me love and everything I wanted. For my 18th b-day, they gave me my first very car. For the longest, I was used...

Anonymous

(25-29)

How do I deal with dating an introvert guy who likes to spend a lot of alone time to himself?

I'm dating an introvert boy who doesn't really like to cuddle, doesn't like me staying over at night because he likes alone time, and prefers to see me like once a week. I'm really attracted to him and he's great, he...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Girl's Behavior

How do you overcome the feeling of being invalidated by people you trusted?

I reconnected with my friend after a long time where we hadn’t seen each other. For the first time in my life I was beginning to process what I had been through in my life and at that moment I needed a true friend. I had...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Anyone else find most people really boring?

I'm having a harder and harder time finding/keeping friends, I get along well with the ones I make, but I end up drifting apart or just ending the friendship because I can't relate to them and don't enjoy the same things...

TheSpaceGnome

Master Age: 39

Dating

What might he have meant by “it feels so right!” during sex?

We’ve been dating about a year, are not I love, probably slowly drifting apart now if anything as I’m now keeping my options open and have advised him to also (even though he says he won’t he probably will). I feel like...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Should I let the days glide on by or should I try once more also am I in the wrong or am I being gaslight?

So last week we had had a conversation about our lack of communication in the past month or so. His perspective : I rarely initiate contact or reach out to him I shouldn't doubt how he feels about me as he's made it...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Do you think he misses me? Do you think someone appearing in your dream mean they miss you?

Me and a childhood friend have had some miscommunications that led to us drifting apart. We were never close but we’ve known eachother since we were 4. I haven’t seen him in about 5/6 years which is a really long time...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Talked to my best friend about my feelings. They are not shared. What do I do?

Pretty much the title. I am 23 male, she is 22 female. Feelings are not shared. We have been friends for such a long time. However I don't know how to handle it from now on. Her telling me about other men was one of...

Anonymous

(25-29)

My best friend has changed :(?

My best friend and I have been friends for 5 years now. At the start of the friendship, she was always hyping me up even when I felt my worst or felt down. She would always call me “stunning and amazing” and said I looked...

Anonymous

(25-29)

What should I do if I'm in love with my childhood friend and she seems uncertain of her feelings for me?

For a long time, I've had very strong feelings for a certain girl. We've known each other since we were kids, and I knew even back then that she loved me. Only that there was a very big problem that I'd prefer not to talk...

IsonicfanI

Xper 1 Age: 28