My brother spends less time with me. What can I do?

[Anonymous]

Me and my second eldest brother would get along like a house on fire. We spent a lot of time together but i feel now we are drifting apart.

Since he met his girlfriend he spends 4 out of 7 days in her house. We barely see him. He spends so much time with her.

When we do spend time together it is very short and he immediately goes back to her. When we watch things together he always texts her. He buys her everything even stuff she never asked for.

I'd love to be able to spend more time with him. It makes me sad because we used to get along so well and i felt i could talk to him about anything.

Updates

+1 y

We watched a film together recently and my brother told me to watch the sequel. I told him i would like the company watching it, he said our mam could. I told him she is busy, he said then watch it yourself. I told him i would like to watch it with him because i had a great time watching the first film with him. He said that he watched it recently with his fiance that he didn't want to see it again. That i should just watch by myself

[WanderingLoveWizard]

Love brings everyone further from their friends and family. That's the way it goes.

As time goes on and the relationship settles, he'll make more time for you. But right now she's the only thing on his mind 24/7.
Just be happy for him

[Asker]

I think he has been with her for 6 years. She is nice but she ignores me and talks to everyone else.

[WanderingLoveWizard]

Oh lol. Nevermind

[Jazzy54]

It’s just that you two are adults now. Things aren’t going to be like it was when you two were kids. Naturally, your relationship is going to change. He still loves you. 😌