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Anonymous
(30-35) How Can I Be Seen as Attractive in Some Situations, but Ignored in Others — Especially at Work?
I’ve noticed a confusing pattern in my social interactions. On one hand, I regularly receive clear signals that I’m considered attractive. Women sometimes approach me first, ask for my number, or compliment my appearance,...
Anonymous
(36-45) Does he like me?
I started as the quieter, smart, somewhat distant type while my friend (the FB) is warm, outgoing, and socially magnetic — the typical popular girl boys chase at first. But over time, as people notice me more, the...
Anonymous
(Under 18) Assess guys body language and intent?
We were at a Christmas party (loud music, drinks etc) for work and one of my coworkers who I never really work with and rarely chat with ended up hanging out- we just kept chatting random things and I noticed he’d be...
Anonymous
(36-45) Crush on an older guy — are these signs he might like me back?
I have a crush on an older guy in one of my classes, and I’m trying to figure out if he might like me back. He’s a little shy and awkward, but some of his behavior has been making me wonder. Whenever we talk, we have...
forestfairystix
Xper 1 Age: 24 Why do guys make fun of girls/women’s likes?
So obviously guys enjoy gaming, sports, anime and etc…. PSA this isn’t regarding all men, but if you fit the box then… which women are also into those things, but we’re also into other things. I first noticed guys were...
Anonymous
(18-24) Do you feel spiritually different?
I've seen my great aunts do spells in the church. Theyve left dead chicks at my family's doorstep before. My dad prophecies and sees miracles. They're have been witnesses everytime. He was told that he and his mentor...
Anonymous
(25-29) How do I know if he likes me back? Are these signs that he is interested?
I get butterflies every time I am around him and its hard for me to talk to him. Well we speak a little sometimes I feel I might be annoying to him simply because I am hyper and a bit loud but I enjoy making people all...
Anonymous
(30-35) Mammograms: What They Don't Tell You.
As you are all aware, October is breast cancer awareness month so apart from Halloween, tis the season for the mammo-mash and the knocker smash! This is our first line of defence against breast cancer but understandably,...
Anonymous
(36-45) Guys, how badly did I screw this up?
In the past couple weeks, I've noticed my ex pulling away (we're still close) and being more withdrawn lately. He said he's going through some things and is attending therapy, and I'm genuinely happy that he is getting...
Anonymous
(36-45) I feel conflicted?
I’ve been dating this guy for a few months now and overall he’s honestly great. He’s funny, kind, emotionally mature all the stuff we say we want. When we first started dating, I didn’t really notice he was balding. But...
Anonymous
(30-35) What is it difficult to be friends with guys?
Hi! I’m 20 and very shy. I mostly hang out with girls and avoid guys because they make me nervous. When I try to speak in a mixed conversation, I often go unnoticed. Maybe it’s because I take a long time to feel...
Anonymous
(18-24) Men over the age of 45 and over attend to be more civilized and mature then guys in their 30's?
In my former life I used to date guys my own age one thing I found out about younger millennials they're all immature womanizer momma's boy. I try my ex try to ran me over with his dodge ram, I was my exs punching bag. I...
Flowersareawsome22
Xper 4 Age: 33 How do we stop men and woman being pitted against eachother?
So today I reunited with an old friend and he had just reunited with his ex and we're talking about how society is changing so quickly, it's making social dynamics and etiquette a lot harder especially for guys. Now I...
Does guy saying “I just want to be friends first” actually mean it?
Okay so I've been talking to this guy for almost 2 months and I thought it was going really well, we’d FaceTime eachother often enough and talk every day but, recently I went out of the country for a family vacation and I...
Anonymous
(18-24) What does it really mean when a woman suddenly wants to " Be Alone " ?
We where planning to marry eventually. Last year i caught her going to dating sites, okok im kinda of computer guy , well more than kinda so i watched the proxy at home and followed the logs, well dating sites are not the...
MrEnigma1122
Xper 1 Age: 56 Guys, if a girl you met through sport added you on Insta, will you accept it?
I first met him through volleyball games. At the start, our interactions were small, but during tournaments he sometimes became the setter. He would ask me softly if the ball was okay, encourage me when I was afraid to...
Anonymous
(25-29) Why don’t women chase men the way men are expected to chase women?
I’ve always noticed that in dating and relationships, there seems to be this unspoken rule: men are the ones who need to make the first move, approach, initiate conversations, ask for numbers, plan the dates, and...
Anonymous
(30-35) Girl calls you bro definitely friend zone right?
I first ask if I could work with her cause the boss sent me and some people like to work alone she says yes. Just started talking she started it basically then went quiet but when I noticed the awkward silence I just...
Anonymous
(25-29) Why does this girl kept ragging on me for dating my ex boyfriend?
My ex and I only dated for three months and it didn’t work out. Well. Nobody felt bad for me because I knew how the guy was. The thing that was messed up was it was a friend’s ex boyfriend. I know, messed up. She dated...
Anonymous
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