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I tend to attract much younger women easier than women my own age. I had a fling going on with a 22 year old a few months ago. I’ve been recently texted up a 21 year old but swings from interested to flighty.

This has its advantages and disadvantages. On one end I’ll admit younger girls are usually hotter, more energetic and fun. Ironically I can be less guarded with some of my own vulnerabilities AFTER I establish a connection. I notice women closer to my age seem to get smart in the wrong ways (they find flaws quickly, fixate on them and reject prematurely).

But on the flip side I have to be very careful with younger women when it comes to avoid “the creep“ vibe. It’s just too easy to just say one wrong thing in beginning and it’s game over. It doesn’t matter if it’s intentional or not. I can’t get away saying a fraction of things I used to say in my youth.

But then I get worried about coming off as boring. Yes younger women like maturity in older guys but I got to be playful. But again it’s a pain in the ass that I have to be careful about joking around (e. g. sexual stuff). I was never the type to use pick up lines or make sexual comments right away but still. How would you like an older attractive guy to start a conversation with you?

There's plenty of videos and statistics proving this yet women #preach the opposite like it's the holy gospel. Hell, most men are practically incels but women hyper fixate on the top teir of them thinking they all have it made when I know guys who killed themselves because of a lack/no options or over a really bad break up so I just find it so disingenuous when girls post shit like this and act all innocent like it's profound or an absolute truth.

The hypocrisy blows my mind, I guess some people would rather continue doing what's wrong than make corrections and do what's right.