Anyone think it's fair and balance for handsome men to use women for sex/play with their emotion?

[Realworldanalysis]

In today's society the average woman thinks she is much hotter than she actually is and tends to treat the average guy like complete trash. This includes things like ghosting, leaving guy's on read via text, manipulating male feelings to use them for their utilizes/attention and some cases just being rude when a guy is trying to have common social interaction.

[In the above video, it highlights some of rude interaction and assumption women tend to make. Even simply as saying hello could have girl being rude towards you. I've literally seen girls look at your average guy with disgust and say she has a boyfriend just because he ask if he could borrow a chair that was unoccupied]

[In video we see two below average looking girl assume that any guy reaching out to them and wishing them happy birthday or holiday greeting is in fact trying to hit on them]

On flip side handsome men and/or with lot of resources tend to manipulate the average woman in a similar way but as a society we are condition to view the man as bad for doing this. If we truly are striving for equality then it should be all equal and fair know? The man is essentially acting the same way that women treat the average male, which is disposable and trash to use as you see fit.

[In the scene above, Tom Cruise plays a rich pretty boy who uses a female for sex then discards her once he is bored. Keep in mind she has other men interested in her but is fixated on getting his attention]

Yes

No

[GlassTop]

It’s a known fact woman aim for attractive and successful men that many other women all want. If they decide to chase after these high value men, they know what they are up for. They are choosing attractive and successful men over love. Thus, should be prepared for all the issues that come with trying to be in a relationship with these men that have no problem replacing them with other younger, prettier, and successful women. If you don’t want your heart played with and cheated on, find a man for love and not attractive features.

[Anonymous]

All's fair in love and war

[sunflower00]

What? ‘Most women’ don’t treat men like trash I have no idea where you got that from. Using others or manipulating others to get what you want is messed up either way

[Realworldanalysis]

except most women do. Either women are not aware of their actions or just being dishonest because no benefit is gained from not doing it. Humans in general will always push to see how much they can get away with.

[sunflower00]

No, they won’t, only ones without a conscience will. I don’t know who you’ve been talking to but you seem to have some very negative views on life…maybe therapy will help? Honestly, if you genuinely think most women treat men like trash and aren’t aware of it or lie, that’s concerning

[Realworldanalysis]

Except women do. Men don't openly express it or make a scene about it in real life because they've gotten accustom to the abuse and have been condition by society to not complain or share their feelings. However, online many men vent at the poor treatment that women often give them and treating them as if they are subhuman.

I know you'll be defensive about it because reflecting on negative aspect of your sex and taking accountability tend to be much harder for women to do than men.

[sunflower00]

It’s not defensive, you’re just very wrong and have a very warped opinion on women which is going to hold you back. That’s a complete generalisation, a small number of women do this just like a small number of men do, that doesn’t mean all women or all men treat the others like ‘trash’ or are manipulative. Please get help or therapy or something

[Realworldanalysis]

We can keep going back and forth on this and just agree to disagree. And generalization aren't bad if they hold true for a large majority of situation. Are there nice women who treat men with decency and respect, yes. However, thanks to social media, male simps and feminism we have far more women who treat men like garbage.

Again i know the typical female response is often to switch blame back to men and say there something wrong with them when they bring it up but this is reality of the world right now.

[DWornock]

This conversation is a typical example of a women that reject all facts and logic and resorts to shaming (suggesting therapy) to seek only the outcome she desires. Although less common, there are men that are just as bad.

[DWornock]

Certainly the first two videos are very realistic. Therefore, it is certainly reasonable and logical. At least temporary it gives the woman what she is seeking and if you don't other men will. Furthermore, it is not like you are helping her. It would be different if she would take your advise and date guys within her league. However, if you made such a suggestion it would only make her resentful and angry. It would not change her foolish behavior because she would still fuck some hot guy while rejecting all guys within her league. It is only after 10 years of going nowhere relationships and countless one night stands that most women finally realized they must look for someone that will marry them and not just fuck them.

Of course by then, they have lost their bloom and the more desirable guys they could have married at ages 18 to 23, are no longer interested in them.

[VikingWarLord]

This is mainly only an issue in the WEST.
Go overseas to the East (SE Asia or Eastern Europe), even hot women will go for ugly dudes there if he has enough money or he comes from a 1st World Country like America. They will bend over backwards to try and snag a western male.

[riidges]

Neither side is fair and balanced when it comes to using your looks to take advantage of people

[Anonymous]

The female responses here are comical. The denial of women about what most men go through in approaching women and how badly many women treat men is unreal.

[UdontNeedtoknow]

I would say it depends on the woman involved, but they usually get what they deserve since "modern" women are so addicted to hypergamy.

[fjb2021]

Rock Hudson? Fuck off. Do you not know reality vs bullshit? Lame stream media.

[sirderpsalot123]

I can't imagine why women don't like you 😂

[Realworldanalysis]

Well people in general tend to get defensive when one shows them an ugly aspect of their behavior and tells them about it. So this is a normal human reaction.

[sirderpsalot123]

You're generalizing half of the population. You do not know most women. We are all our own individual people. Stop this. Its pathetic.

[In_Trance]

Nobody ever said life was fair

[Realworldanalysis]

This is true. However we aren't talking about life was fair. We are looking at societal double standards of calling out guys for doing the exact same thing women do to your average guy and labelling that guy as bad.

We even have revenge movies of girls getting back at players when those same girls are doing the same exact behavior to average guy.

E. g. John tucker must die.

[Kiran_Yagami]

Yes. It is 100% fair. Next question.

[anylolone]

Well, that's what women use them for as well.

[ragooo8]

Not about fairness.