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Would you want to be with someone who didn’t have all that they should typically have (car, apartment, etc) approaching their mid 20’s? If someone is working, saving money, almost done with college and most of all a good potential partner - would you consider giving a relationship a try?

It has happened to me once and to my 2 female friends. We were 16 year-olds at the time but he was mature for his age. I actually did fell in love with him for both his looks and other traits such as a good, family-oriented boy, he was kind to others and liked reading and liked animals. He thanked me, said he felt flattered but wasn't interest in a romantic relationship, though we can be friends. I could tell he had a hard time saying all that.

If he would've rejected me harshly, called me bad names, acted grossed out or made a scene out of it, yeah I would've hated him forever or probably had self-esteem issues. It still hurt but much less than if he had been rude. We're still friends till this day and both of us dated others.

This happens to guys too. Who do you think gets hurts the most? The man or the woman?

I video chatted this guy I met. We were talking, and he asked about my toxic trait. I told him and asked what was his. He said it's getting bored with people easily. I asked if he ghosted people. He said it's not like ghosting, but I kind of disagree. Before we ended the call, he expressed he wanted to see me, and I was like i don't know. We just video chatted and haven't been talking for very long. I try to get to know people in a good amount of time before I see them physically. Because we live in a crazy world. Before we hang up, he almost reminds me that he gets bored easily. I took offense to this and felt he was saying if I didn't get back to him in a timely manner, he was going to not talk to me. I haven't spoken to him since. He video chatted me but I wasn't available. Was he being manipulative?