Why do you turn down good guys and want the other traits?

[scott04sa22]

What makes the other traits so special, then having the average good guy

[_Maya_]

Who says we turn down good guys? And who are we going after then. Please don't tell me the "bad boys" theory. That is complete bullshit. Also what is an average guy? Can you define what that is? The problem with your argument is that it is completely subjective. What a good guy is to me is not going to be the same to the next girl. She might find a guy a "good guy" that I would never want to date for whatever reason. So lumping everyone together doesn't really work. We date who we are attracted to. What I find to be attractive in looks and character another girl is going to say is average. That goes for them too. They might think they hit the jackpot and I look at the guy as "average" or however you want to classify it as.

[SeriouslyNotSerious]

Who said we turn down good guys? I'm already in a relationship with one.. 😜