So a guy I was dating broke up with me over the phone via text when my cell was off. He said that he couldn't be with me, because I'm too pure, innocent and goody goody. Not only that but because he couldn't believe that I'm still a virgin at 18 years old. So he goes to my 14 year old sister who's the exact opposite. Emo lots of piercings, and not a virgin. It hurts and I don't know how to get this pain out of my chest.
Most Helpful Guy
I fuck up and I'm honest about it. I accept that life is not ideal and neither am I. I'm honest even when it hurts to be. So when I meet pure, innocent, goody goody people I don't like them because I know (usually just from watching them) that they are just like me. They have thoughts that aren't always beautiful and perfect but instead of just being honest and letting me see flaws and all they continue to work to show this picture of perfection to the world. It's boring, dishonest, and a little patronizing. And if it's true that they are in fact the exact same way inside and out it makes me like them even less because they probably haven't been through much of anything in life. life puts you in morally ambiguous situations all the time which make you do things you don't feel proud of. So either accept the imperfection or fight it by trying to be good. I like those that accept it. But honestly a guy who dumps his 18 year old girlfriend for her 14 year old sister is creepy and probably not that bright no matter what the girls personalities are. That's just a creepy, low, and cruel move for any guy. Be glad your not dating him.0
Most Helpful Girl
First if he was dating you then goes for your underage sister he is a straight loser. Thus not even worth you time. You are with the wrong guy sweetheart. A man about something wants that type as as his woman. They want to sleep with open and sluts. He's your typical guy these days brain washed by society thinking everybody is sleazy. Save your time he did you a favor. As I always say "what one man don't want the next man will"0