Let's just say he has a good education, he takes care of his hygiene, he does have a sense of humour, good work ethic, has a job, takes care of his health and physique and he's not some weird, aggressive, sexist guy. He's someone who can hold it down on his own and be honest. He's a guy that doesn't sleep around, doesn't drink, doesn't party, doesn't do drugs. From this description alone, I know a girl may read this and say, what's the catch? If he seems like a great dude overall why is he constantly getting rejected? There must be an issue with his game then. Here's the thing girls, there's a reason why guys who are players get the girls but never commit and usually never marry so just because a good dude has good qualities and doesn't get the girl while another guy who has bad traits that a girl usually regrets later on.
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Girls, honest advice girls, if a guy has been rejected a lot what should he do to fix himself and seem more attractive?
What Girls Said
The issue I have with many guys, as an attractive woman, is that guys approach me and express their romantic interest and then they disappear when I show interest back. It’s like; ‘Why did they even bother wasting my time and theirs, if they’re just going to nick off like scared little boys?’ So I’d say if you’re scared to ask a girl out, tell her how you feel, or make the first move for kissing or sex, congratulations, you’ve made it to the friendzone. Or the blocked zone.
So my point being, don’t waste women’s time or your own by being a coward. Either approach them and be prepared to make moves, or spend the rest of your life alone and don’t complain if that happens, because it’s your own fault for doing nothing.
Guys aren’t scared they view dating as a waste of time because women have 10+ options on the side
Well, you asked. I’m telling you the issues I face with men, as a selective woman.
and im providing my input as well. Women can be selective but I just think women want the 6ft4, 250 pnd football line breaker
I don’t. Although I’m sure there’s truth to that for some women.
on point agree 100% why flirting if then it goes nowhere? It's just a waste of time
Have you really been rejected or maybe you've been "rejected" because you're the one rejecting? Overthink it
It depends what you're looking for, I mean if ur looking for just flirt and hook-up than your attitude is not good for these kind of people. Indeed, on the other if you're true to yourself you'll attract people like you with same values. e. g. don't smoke ecc..
Nah to be honest I’m looking for someone where something blossoms and I consider marriage. I’m not into flings, hook ups or situationships. I can’t waste time on females with trust issues because a female with trust issues will usually never commit to a guy and that’s something she has to battle within herself to change.
Ease up on yourself; if it's meant to be, the right person will come along. Your primary concern shouldn't be fixating on that. Trust issues aren't solely a female problem—perhaps unclear communication caused the rift between both parties. If you genuinely care for someone, express your feelings; otherwise, how can they know? If trust is an issue, consider your own actions as a possible cause. Avoid playing the victim and honestly reflect on past interactions
I've come to terms with the rejection and have accepted that the connection I felt was one-sided. I am really untrusty but I trusted his person. Just because he rejected me I am not seeking a replacement because I believe that if it's meant to be, it will happen naturally. You have to do the same: learn to prioritize meaningful connections and trust that if something is meant to unfold, it will, without forcing it or actively seeking it out.
I talked to this girl for 10 months, she added me a year ago on Instagram by following me, I thought I was getting trolled. We chatted more on social media, exchanged numbers -- talked on the phone, she told me I am a stubborn person and I thought maybe she's just saying stuff. She sent memes of boyfriend and girlfriend play fighting and hitting each other to memes about marriage to how she would want her wedding. These to me were clear signs she liked me. She even said hey we should hang out and go to a museum or art exhibit.
I started liking this girl more and more. Then she dealt with some life issues, went on vacation, came back, needed time to herself, but was always in constant talks with me and wanted to meet up, finally we meet up last October, date goes by well, we were with each other for like 3 hrs. I bought a nice simple dinner, gave her a small scented candle I saw online. A wk later all I did was I asked her hey do you wanna meet up again, she wasn't very responsive but later says im open to meeting again but im busy because its Q4 season for the financial industry with work and I think you might want to talk to other girls I don't want to keep you waiting... I was hurt by this so there was frustration but i didn't insult her or swear at her, she took that as disrespect. Following day, she doesn't talk, day after I tried to make her laugh but she was annoyed. I tried apologizing but she wasn't having it and said I dont see a future with you because you couldnt remain calm. Mind you these were text messages sent and I wasn't being rude. I just wanted to know her stance. I asked her what did I do wrong - she's like your an awesome guy, I love your ambition and drive in life for school and work, I had a great time on the date. I think the more I wanted something to work it annoyed her and she basically ended it by saying f-you and blocking me, haven't talked to her since mid October. Her and I both live in the same city, same religion, same religious values, attend the same religious places, and we graduated from the same university. I can't trust girls now, im tired of this nonsense, im in my 30s!