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Here's my situation. Im 25, I've never been on a date before, and I've had sex with a woman. It was a hookup, and thought it was kind of mediocre. I prefer emotional connection over sex, but people I like are very rare. I don't know anyone anymore, and I have to meet people in person. The problem however is Im usually too shy to talk to anyone to even get a date. Usually I just end up staring at my phone and leaving because Im too scared to talk to anyone. I also lack self confidence, I live with family, and I work fast food. Currently deciding on whether to go back to school or just stick with crap jobs and welfare. Here's the thing: Dating stresses me out and depresses me. I dont feel like I have much of a chance, and the stress is so much Im considering giving up and either being alone or try dating men. I feel like it's not normal to be this shy and maybe I should just give up and move on. I don't want pity, I want real honest answers. Im tired of false hope and constant failure. Does someone like me stand a chance in the dating world or should I just move on? Is it normal to feel this way? What are some good icebreakers and tips to overcome this issue?