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So, I am a second-generation immigrant from a very traditional and conservative country, now living in one of the most liberal Western countries in the world. I am very grateful to be living here as the quality of life and opportunities are just a lot better; however, needless to say, the cultural differences are immense.

One of the things that always bothered me growing up was this "rush" to lose your virginity, especially as a guy. My friends would drag me along to clubs and stuff, and I'm not a bad-looking guy by any means, and opportunities for me to have "one-night stands" have presented themselves, but I never really had any interest in this.

Call me corny, but the idea of being intimate with someone I do not have a very strong emotional connection with, someone who couldn't be my wife in the future, did not appeal to me.

Guys talk about this stuff, and I am open about this in my friend group as I don't feel like lying about it, but I find myself being the subject of "virgin" jokes quite often, especially considering my age (which isn't an abnormal thing in my home country).

Now, I know it's all in good fun and I know they have no malicious intent, but I can't help but wonder if this would be a problem for potential future mates. So my question to you girls is, if a guy you were dating in his mid to late twenties said he was a virgin, would you immediately associate that with negative attributes? Would this be a problem or perhaps not your first choice, would you be indifferent or heck even prefer it?

My stance is that if you look at your grandad, he could get a woman 5X the quality (virgin, cooks/cleans, obedient), just because he has a degree.

Whereas now;

You have to have your whole life in order, intelligent, money, hardworking, tall, fit everything, handsome.

For what? A girl that jumps across guys and doesn’t treat you with the true respect men deserve.

Do you agree? Just an observation. It’s so common to meet a girl that’s talking to multiple guys at once and just playing some game.

There used to be studies on this, and it found that most women prefer short hair on men, but that study has since been censored.

I see a growing trend of men growing out their hair, and I don't get why. It makes them look weak, and there's more going on there than just visuals. You're not going to wear an army helmet with long hair, you're not going to aim down sights with long hair in the way, and you're sure as hell not going to fight off the creep who touched that girl inappropriately at the bar when he can grab you hair and strangle you with it.

This is made worse when seeing the long-haired guys. They're extremely skinny, often very emotional and hot-headed, and very fragile. Some say it's hot as it's deviant, but that to me is like refusing to do exercises at boot camp and giving credit to the guy who refuses to perform his duty cause that's deviant behavior as well.

Women want a man who's level-headed, strong, protective, and kind. Men with long hair have none of those qualities and don't even look the part. A good question for them is, "Are you a girl? Cause if you're not, why are you trying to look like them?

Let me know, ladies. You like long hair on men?