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I went to my local burger joint and grab a burger. I couldn't afford the 2 for 5 burger deal but the female employee paid the taxes on the 2 burger deal for me. I told her she didn't have too but she assist. I also looked at her. She looked unattractive but cute to me and she didn't have a ring but not sure if she's was in a relationship. Since she paid the taxes on my food I did thought of getting her number or give my number to her but I've been rejected too many times. Not too many people paid for my meals. the uglies in my town are more attractive to African Americans or other races then their own. Thats how things work 🤷🏻‍♂️ I'm sure she was being friendly. Well anyways should i gotten her number? I'm also thinking on paying her back soon. she didn't make any romantic moves or talked romantically on me. Again people like her with kindness are always taken.

Recently I've been trying to tell people that I don't drive and I'm unable to date people. I've been rejecting people because of it. Also when a women comes up to me giving me all sorts of signals then I tell her with kindness and respect that I'm flattered... but I'm not interested and I don't drive. I had guys come up to me to tell me to try again with confidence but I also had other guys came up to me and told me that I'm undateable since I have with no license or car and it's a huge deal breaker to all woman out there. Ugh... I wish people just listen... That's all.

Also I got nobody to teach me how to drive at the moment and it's a possibility that I won't be able drive to do to my medical histories.