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I often see guys give girls who are 'really girly' a lot of attention.

- It's not I dress like a male, but I just don't like dresses, wearing pink, ... I don't dress to impress. As long as I feel comfortable.
- I can't relate to my female friends who like make up, going shopping, being afraid to take initiative, etc. I can be very straightforward (without being rude). I don't flirt and don't like it when people compliment my looks. I hate taking pictures of myself and going out.
- I like gaming, watching sports from time to time and eating a lot (I'm not fat).

People have told me I should start wearing make up, going out, start wearing more 'naked' things, ... And when I wear a bit of make up, people tell me: “You should look like this more often!”

One of my friends told me I don't really stand a chance with girls who wear make up, dresses, flirt, etc.

I started dating this guy around a year ago and immediately red flags were swinging from the mountain tops. But here I am at 35 and still searching for Mr Right. We had great chemistry and shared a lot of the same interests!
But here came the red flags.. 1) he told me my neighbor had a nice ass 🙄 2) I was trainihg for a fitness competition and he wanted me to wear pink. Not my color, but he tries to convince me how good it looks by showing me a pic of a pink swim suit on his ex 🙄 3) He had nothing but 20 year olds on his FaceBook. I'm not the jealous type but I thought hmmm is he a creeper. Then I'm told by mutual friends he's leaving flirtatious comments on these girls pics. I ask him about it and of course they're just friends. 4). He's a Hooters regular. Listen, nothing wrong with the Hoots but when you're 45 and all the girls know you by name..
So anyway, I tell him I'm concerned but he assures me he's a great guy and I'm insecure. Well low and behold I find him texting a 21year old. She didn't seem interested, but he was "courting her." Offered her a job that paid her more than she currently has (he owns his own business). So I break up with him of course. And ohhhh here comes the flowers, the tears, the repentance, the I can't live without you. I give in after a month. He truly seemed sorry and I've made my share of mistakes in life. But I still had this horrible feeling and it led me to the unthinkable - I went through his phone 😳. And oh boy did the skeletons come out. Turns out skinny jeans is a Sugar Daddy. All those young girls on Facebook- well he was offering them financial assistance for "a sexual arrangement." Basic modern day prostitution. And he was on Sugar Daddy dot com and Craigslist parading through the encounters list. Puke. Now granted most of these were when we had broken up (I did break up with him several times over the red flags) but yuk right? Can someone like this truly change? Or should I run for the hills? He has changed it seems