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I am meeting with my boyfriend of a year who said we were on a "break" a month ago and ghosted me. During that time he hungout with this girl that during our relationship I told him he cannot talk to or we are done. They have done sexual things before and she sent me an extremely disrespectful text (disrespecting me and my boyfriend) 6 months ago. He wants to talk tomorrow (likely about getting back together). I really need either him to confess to me he saw her or I need to bring it up and clarify that if we do get back together he needs to cut her off permanently and he will not be going on "breaks" to talk to her every now and then if thats why he did this. His response to those needs is the deciding factor that is gonna make or break his chance of getting back together with me. The problem is this is his first relationship and he has a strong "fighting = broken relationship" thinking. And unfortunately I cannot bring up this topic without being mad and fighting about it. I was thinking of typing everything I want to say on a paper a bringing it with me and then being like "I don't know how to talk about this without fighting and I don't want to fight so please read this" and hand it to him. Would this be a good idea or weird/too much drama? Any other ideas? I just feel like if I bring it up by talking about it that it will lead to a negative conversation/fighting and I won't say the right things on the spot.

From my experience most men are not attracted to me but there were minority of them gave me a second look. I have been called mid/average, pretty/beautiful coupla times. I have a certain look that attracts a few men but my appearance does repelled other men or made them ignored me or maybe it’s because it’s rude to stare at someone from where I lived so… I rarely have men making eye contact with him and I remembered I was flirted with a month ago but I rejected him because I felt awkward and it scared me because no other man has done it to me before. I’m assuming there are men who want me but most wouldn’t give me a chance?

I’m in my late twenties and planning to get married soon, but I’m feeling a bit unsure about this Italian guy I’ve been seeing. I’m not a native English speaker, though my English is quite good, probably close to native level.

He’s Italian and currently living in my country. His English isn’t terrible, but it’s a bit broken , not so bad that I can’t understand him, but it sometimes makes communication a little tricky.

He’s a good guy, and there’s definitely attraction between us, but that language barrier worries me a bit.

I live in a small country where most people aren’t very open-minded, while I consider myself quite open-minded , which is probably why I tend to be more drawn to foreigners.

Do you think I should give him a chance?