Worried im creeping her our?

[Anonymous]

So I've mentioned in previous posts that there's this cute cashier. The thing is i've been going there a lot recently like i went there today, and 2 days ago this week. I also went there twice last week hoping that i would work up the courage to give her my instagram. I couldn't find an opportunity once again today. All the times i've went there i always would order something, like 2 combos for me and my mom. She kinda already knows my mom too. She was there today, and when i walked in and saw her, she kinda stared at me for awhile without smiling and she took my order and even remembered my specific order from last time. As she was taking my order, she was kinda adjusting her shirt, like preening. Then, I went back in there again because my mom wanted a salad. When i was there waiting for the salad... she kinda told her coworker about me and he glanced into my direction and tried to not make it obvious. Now im scared i might've freaked her out. Did I ruin my chances to shoot my shot? I plan to go back there soon but not too soon, I always show up at the same time she's usually there which is usually my dinner time. I need opinions, i felt like there was some previous hints with her, and i dont wanna miss another potential opportunity with a girl.

[ChicoFromThe305]

No I don't think so, overthinking can indeed ruin everything, now that she expects you to come back soon, don't, take like a week or an abnormal pattern and take an unusual time of absence, if she noticed your pattern she will be expecting you, with this unexpected touch of mystery she might think twice on any form of perception she created about you, it won't fall into thinking anything bad about you, just have her questioning if whatever she assumed about you in real, if she guesses your order again, change it and say you want to try something new, if she doesn't try to guess then keep it the same, this creates a form of doubt and helps her not jump to straight conclusions about you, somewhat creating a fresh start

[Staximus]

If she's not happy to see you then she doesn't like you, smart guy.

[Asker]

What do you mean?

[Staximus]

Do you speak English in What?

[Anonymous]

Leave the fucking cashiers and waitresses and coffee girls alone! They get hit on 100 times a day. They're not interested in you. Most of them already have a boyfriend.

[Nikki1989]

Ugh, not the cashier again!

Grow up. Move on!