Search Results: long distance ex

Is it appropriate to message your ex's close friend if you're also friends with them?

We split up over a month ago after being together for nearly 5 years. We aren't on speaking terms anymore, it was a pretty messy breakup. One of his closest friends who he has known for over ten years also became my...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Is it okay for me to mingle and have casual fun or sex with a guy till I meet someone special and have a connection with and it turns into more?

Since coming out of my last toxic relationship with my ex last year dating long distance, its been a crazy, emotional, life changing year and recently i lost my virginity to a guy on tinder through a one night stand and...

Paolaa988

Explorer Age: 27

Why won't my ex-girlfriend talk to me its been three years what can I do about itit?

I feel like me and my ex-girlfriend had a very deep relationship. We lived together and traveled together and we went through so much together. I remember it like it was yesterday when she looked into my eyes and told me...

casanova411

Xper 6 Age: 30

Guys, Should I be bothered by this? Or am I overthinking things?

My ex and I rekindled things a few months after a year apart. We are currently doing long distance. He has many girl friends and his best friend is also a girl (many years of friendship). I know her personally and she is...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Tips for dating a busy long distance boyfriend?

The last few weeks this guy I’ve been talking to for 4 months now. His work schedule changed. He owns a restaurant with his parents and now work 14 hours everyday no days off anymore. For a while it’s been hard for me...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How do you make an avoidant long distance ex want you back? (They’ve said they still like you but aren’t ready for a relationship)?

Anonymous

(25-29)

My ex reached out 2 weeks after we broke up, saying she hopes I’m doing well... should I respond?

We were long distance (she's in college across the state), she broke up with me over Facetime after a rough patch. She reached out the day after to see how I was doing, I didn’t respond. Now 2 weeks later, she...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

Why is he ignoring me?

My ex and I broke up just after he moved provinces. We had a big falling out, and after we broke up I thought we weren’t getting back together. About 3 weeks after our breakup, I hooked up with someone he’s *very* close...

LeoPride93

Xper 5 Age: 32

Why does it seem harder to meet and find a romantic connection with people when we are older?

Does anyone else sense or relate to this? I feel like as an adult it's harder because you either work a long job, busy with responsibilities, or something like that. I honestly feel like when i was younger as in a...

Paolaa988

Explorer Age: 27

Why would my ex boyfriends sister still follow me on Instagram?

Hey everyone I was wondering if anyone would be able to give me a few cues or ideas about my situation I’m a little confused on. So my long distance ex boyfriend that I never met in person broke up a few months ago at the...

Paolaa988

Explorer Age: 27

My ex reached out to me 24 hours after our breakup to see if I'm doing okay... Should I text back?

We were long distance (she's in college across the state), she broke up with me over Facetime after a rough patch. Now 24 hours later she reached out. Should I still remain no contact or answer this 1 text? I fear that...

Anonymous

(25-29)

How to cope & move on from a long distance relationship that ended on bad terms?

My ex cheated on me & moved on to a new relationship right after our breakup. One day he just randomly said he want me to move on with my life & he don’t want to waste my time anymore. Then a few days later I found out...

Anonymous

(18-24)

How do you help an older man get over his ex and long term relationship?

I want to show him he can trust again. The distance and the age gap does not help. Help.

Femmefatale97

Xper 5 Age: 28

Why my ex added me on Ig?

We split up 3 years ago, but it was until 2020 that we did it officially (we had a long distance relationship). Since then we didn’t spoke but he keep watching all my mom’s stories on WhatsApp and last week he texted me...

Anonymous

(25-29)

He cheated on his ex long distance girlfriend, and I'm afraid he might do the same with me?

We've been talking with this guy for over 3 months now. We met online cause we live far away from each other (basically in different states), but as I found him funny and nice I kept on talking to him. Over the course of...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

Do guys send songs to a girl just because?

My ex sent me a song and it was a really intimate song “Meeting in My Bedroom” by Silk. The songs have sexual lyrics but also romantic ones like when he says “You’re everything that I’ve been searching for that I’ve been...

sd1223

Yoda Age: 29