Why won't my ex-girlfriend talk to me its been three years what can I do about itit?

[casanova411]

I feel like me and my ex-girlfriend had a very deep relationship. We lived together and traveled together and we went through so much together. I remember it like it was yesterday when she looked into my eyes and told me that she loved me seeing the tears roll down her face. I have the note she wrote me telling me how much she loved me, trusted me, and promised me we would meet again. We met traveling so she ended up needing to go back home and while we were long-distance I just went crazy and lost myself. I broke up with her and then she broke up with me and then blocked me and cut me out of her life. I remember everything and i still care about her I honestly can accept that she's not with me anymore but i can't get past the fact that she won't say a word to me and just blocks me. I went no contact for 2 years and i still haven't heard a word from her. I really wish we could talk again but i dont know what to do anymore it hurts me everyday when i think about her yet i can't do anything to solve it. I just get this since that she won't be honest with me and talk to me and let me talk to her regardless of if i changed or not I understand there's emotions but its been three years. I have done everything i can just to ignore what i feel inside yet even though im not attached to her something inside me tells me that something between me and her does not make since what can i do please help?

[Miristheiss]

Move on dude. Girls don't like. Heal, hang out with friends, talk about these things to them, get counseling, talk to your church pastor, get out and do things, pursue hobbies and interests, hang out with and meet new people, start meeting and asking out new women.

[casanova411]

I have done all those things and I moved on. I personally feel great ! But however far I go something inside of me brings me back to her. So I need to know how to get past that.

[whatdoyouwantt]

Well you hurt her too when you broke up with her.


She’s not obligated to respond to you after this long. I also lose interest if too much time passed.

[casanova411]

I know she’s not obligated to. I know I probably hurt her too. But I also know that we were something really special and we really loved each other. So I wish we could talk get perspective and start over because at least from my side I didn’t mean to hurt her, and I know things could be just fine if she would let me in.

[Daviddd5412]

Sorry 😔