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Hello, well as the title says that’s me. I’ve just never met a nice girl for me. I’m a doctor and
I’ve met some nice girls in my life but never a girl for me.

Some things are hard to explain, but I wanted to find a really nice girl which I never have. Very sad, but I think it’s how life works

So technically I’m about to turn 29, but close enough. But I’ve never had a girlfriend or dated (I’ve only been on 1 date 7 years ago) I’m not a virgin because me and the girl I went out with on that one date a long time ago hooked up at the end of the night, but I haven’t had sex at all since then. I just have a feeling that at this point, its gonna be really hard for me to date or get into a relationship because of the fact that I have so little experience at such a late age. I feel like its gonna be a repeating cycle of going out on dates (if I can even get any in the first place) only to be rejected once a girl finds out how inexperienced I am. And I doubt any girls in my age group want or are expecting to be a guy’s first girlfriend.

My soul is crushed (and has been) for quite a while now. Back in 2020, I met a girl online who I thought was perfect. She never had a male friend before me, never had a boyfriend or first love, and she was a virgin. We really hit it off and talked almost daily. Sadly, when she met me in person, she rejected me.

Fast forwarding, she recently married a guy who got to be her first everything. I am sick to my stomach to this day thinking about it.

I want to find a woman just like who she was when we first met. I want a decently attractive woman without a romantic past. Do you think she is out there for me?

I am turning 28 in a few months, of course nearing my 30s, and I never had a real girlfriend before. I had some online things, but they all rejected me upon meeting in person for the first time. Meanwhile, I have watched all my former friends form serious relationships, get married, and most of them have kids now.

I am not the most attractive guy physically. I am short and overweight I admit. I am also "weird" to a lot of people. I am on the Autistic Spectrum and have mental health issues too.

I haven't touched a girl since I was 20 (back in June 2015). I lost my virginity then to a 16 year old girl who was supposedly a virgin too at the time. I have only had sex exactly once in my lifetime. I have never actually "made love".

It saddens me because all my life I always wanted to have a girlfriend, wife, and kids of my own.

Really, I am seeking a decently attractive woman without a romantic past, but my days are numbered finding that I feel. That is a deal breaker to me. I feel I would be lucky to even find a good woman who has never been married at this point