Do you think she is out there for me?

[LonelyTimes]

My soul is crushed (and has been) for quite a while now. Back in 2020, I met a girl online who I thought was perfect. She never had a male friend before me, never had a boyfriend or first love, and she was a virgin. We really hit it off and talked almost daily. Sadly, when she met me in person, she rejected me.

Fast forwarding, she recently married a guy who got to be her first everything. I am sick to my stomach to this day thinking about it.

I want to find a woman just like who she was when we first met. I want a decently attractive woman without a romantic past. Do you think she is out there for me?

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My biggest fear is not being able to find a girl like this again

[Pudsmucker]

I was pretty close to your age when I got married. I had gone through a bad relationship it broke up and I thought the world was coming to an end. I was teaching at a university when this gorgeous carrot red haired women walks in to my study asking for assistance. We have now been married for 44 years. Sometimes you do have to have a history. Just have to date, this dating gives you the opportunity to get to know the person better.
I also had a nephew that didn't get married until he was about 35. Going enjoy the fishing.

[big_ben_007]

You just gotta know what type of girl u want and where those types of girls are. Your dream girl might be in college studying for a degree. Or in the gym every single day. Or at a car show. If u dont wanna look for her just be patient and she'll come and find you one day 👌

[big_ben_007]

Thanks for selecting my answer 👌

[Anonymous]

I think you should not be so picky at this point, since you clearly don’t have it going on in this looks department if she didn’t like you upon meeting you.

[LonelyTimes]

I am just short in height at 5'6". She wanted a taller guy.

[Birdlegs]

I can guarantee that if y’all hit it off online then she didn’t reject you for your height.

[Opinion Owner]

Well, that is pretty short for a lot of girls, so I repeat, you should not be so picky.

[LazerBean]

Are you a virgin and are you wanting to wait till marriage? If not, than it's not likely.

[LonelyTimes]

I have never had a real girlfriend. I lost my virginity 7 years ago during a weekend fling. I never saw her again after that weekend, and I have not had sex since.

[LazerBean]

Yeah. I am the girl in a situation similar to yours. It's best that you just open up to finding a girl who is on your level of experience.

[LonelyTimes]

Do you think I can get a girl like the one I am looking for?

[LazerBean]

It's extremely unlikely. You might can find a girl who just wants to get rid of her virginity and start sleeping around. But if you want a conservative virgin girl, they're only interested in other virgins who are wanting to marry. At least that is how I and all my like-minded friends are.

[LonelyTimes]

It is not about her virginity as much as it has to do with whom she loved and had romantic bonds with before.

[LazerBean]

That's what we think as well, but how you define that means different things to different types of people.

[clampfan101]

I had a childhood sweetheart I started dating just before she passed away. I’m still finishing picking up the pieces of my heart, but I’m sure there’s someone else out there I will want and be able to marry.
Just keep looking.