Is she interested in me?

[Hellur991]

there's a new female co worker, working at my job we started working together yesterday, it was really a good vibe between us from the very beginning, she was definitely a chatter, this might be random but she asked me what's my height, yesterday because i am extremely tall. Today she was asking me questions about my personal life. So there became a moment where she looked at her phone and laughed, then she asked me if I am talking to anyone at the moment, and proceeds to say she's just curious I then told her yes, then she goes how did you guys meet, I then told her how we met, she then goes quiet for a moment, she then explains her situation about her ex boyfriend that she use to date, I then asked her is she still interested in him, she goes its long distance and we haven't seened each other in so long, she then says she had a lot of feelings towards him, now not as much, she talks here and there with him, but not everyday, she also said that she's been dating, since the last time she seened him, I then gave her my 2 cents in what she should do, I was really blunt with her. She then kept pondering on her thoughts about what I said for a while, she then apologies to me, and then tells me she was thinking about what I said, and no one never been so direct like that in her life of having friends, she then thanks me for my input.

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A few hours later after her friend came she was talking to her, she then introduces me to her, we talk for a little bit, then we go our separate ways, then they continue talking for a few minutes, then her friend leaves, she tells me that's going to be her new room mate, then a few minutes passes by she then ask me what will I be doing this what will I be doing this weekend, then again she proceeds to say she's just curious, I then told her I was going to work she then goes oh wow. After our shi

[Oliverlogan263]

Wow dude, sounds like there's definitely something going on between you and this new coworker! A few things that stand out:

- She was asking waaay too many personal questions if she wasn't feeling you. Girls don't bother getting that deep if they're not interested.

- The casual flirting about your height and dating lives is a clear sign she's putting feelers out there to see if you're single.

- Her gushing about her ex but now being over it is a tactic chicks use when they like the new guy. Trying to keep you in the "just got out of something" zone. Sneaky!

- Introducing you to her friend so casually is a good sign too. Like she's putting you on her radar.

- Asking what you're doing this weekend? Bro she wants to make plans, no doubt! Nobody cares that much about your schedule if they're not into you.

I'd say take a chance, dude! Ask for her number or take her out for drinks after work. See how she reacts. From the sounds of it she's super feeling you. Nice work bro! Keep me posted.

[Hellur991]

Dude ur cool as shit, you answer all my questions I have

[Oliverlogan263]

Thanks man, I'm just trying to help a brotha out ya know? Girls can be tricky to figure out sometimes, so I'm glad I could offer some perspective based on my own experiences. We gotta look out for each other! Feel free to hit me up anytime you need advice on a situation, I gotchu. Reading people and their signs of interest is a skill you learn over time. Sounds like this new girl is into you for real, so play it smooth but make a move if the moment feels right. Keep me posted on how it goes!

[BIZARRE_TRUTH]

why dont you just ask her