So i hung out with this guy from tinder a few days ago and it went super well and he was clearly interested. He told me about himself and was even vulnerable. I made it clear that I am into him and would like to hang out again. Well I feel like I’ve made advancements/flirting and he reciprocates, but doesn’t make anymore plans.
So today I asked him blatantly if he was interested in hanging out again and if he was interested and explained I’m asking because I don’t want to make advances and it make him uncomfortable if he’s not interested.
Basically he said I don’t make him uncomfortable and he wants to start as friends because he needs to work on some things before jumping into a serious relationship. but I mentioned nothing about being in a relationship? I made it clear I was into hanging out with him (I am interested in pursuing a relationship but I never told him that).
During the hang out, we talked about rejection and I mentioned that I would rather be told up front if they aren’t interested and aren’t feeling it. He never told me he wasn’t interested when I asked him blatantly and he shows interest and never lets the conversation die, never leaves me on read but doesn’t message first? But is flirtatious and reciprocates if I am flirtatious.
After I asked him blatantly, I said if he wants to hang out next weekend, to let me know and he said “okay I will;))”
Is he interested in me maybe? I feel like he’s giving mixed signals, even when I asked directly.
