Search Results: can a guy ever change

How can I move on from this affair?

So I’ve been involved in an affair with a married man on and off for the past 5 years. Initially, we were together from 2016-2018, and I didn’t see him for 2 years after we broke up. back in June 2020, I went to the...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why is he acting like this all of a sudden?

Me and this guy have been getting a lot closer over the last few months and it seemed quite obvious that there were mutual feelings. Unfortunately, the people that we are surrounded by are quite immature and have been...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Bumped into a fbuddy that I haven't seen in a year, & confused about my feelings for him. do I cut him off? or should I talk to him about how I feel?

so last year I met a guy on tinder when I was in my hometown for a weekend. I was living in another state for university so I was only able to see him 4 times last year when he came to the state I was in for his business....

nocturnalbaby

Xper 5 Age: 28

I'm super into the guy I've been going out with recently, but there is a major age difference (I'm 40, he's 26) Is the age difference too much?

There's a guy I've been talking to for a few months that I love being around and I'm really attracted to. We have very compatible senses of humor and have a lot of fun with each other. I also think he's really sweet,...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Why do I feel self-conscious whenever I think of my boyfriend?

My boyfriend is one of the sweetest guys I have ever met, he's kind and funny, and never insults anyone, not on purpose anyway. The more I'm around him, I find myself having to act a certain way, like showing off, or...

shorty_samy

Xper 4 Age: 19

Would a guy ever change career plans because of a girl / love?

I met this guy (30) right as he was graduating law school. He had his whole next year set up and was ready to live in another country and travel and had work lined up. We continued to see each other for a few months but...

Anonymous

(30-35)

The dream that changed my outlook on life

Yesterday, I had a dream about a man who I went through a mutual breakup with two years ago. I thought I was over what could have been - and then that dream forced me to compare my current partner with this man, who has...

Anonymous

(18-24)

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Is this stalking?

I once glanced over at this guy (a distant friend) and smiled at him. Ever since, he began this thing of locking eyes with me for a few seconds, but since he wouldn't talk to me even when I msged him, I dropped it....

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girl's Behavior

Girls, have you ever wrongly gauged a guy to be a pushover only to find out he was secretly a hard ass when he needed to be (read my example below)?

A girl I once liked thought I was a push over "too nice" when she would interact with me daily. She basically friend zoned me is what she did. She apparently found my physically attractive and "sweet" but I guess thought...

t-8900

Yoda Age: 36

Should you tell your brother in law that your sister in law is cheating on him?

So obviously this is weighing really heavily on me. I honestly feel horrible because I knew she was cheating on him before they got married, and he got her pregnant. She told her brother that when they got married she...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why do I feel like people are trying to change me? I can't help what sort of guys im attracted to?

So my story is, im a 23 year old woman. I work a part time job& go to college. I am single. I find myself ONLY attracted to guys with baby faces,& a little younger like 18 to 20 years old. I dont like guys with facial...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Girl's Behavior

How does a guy let a girl know he doesn't just want her for sex without looking desperate?

Answer shouldn't involve money. I'll admit I am driven by money at this stage of my life. I'm on my way to have not a whole ton of money, but at least enough to own the place where I'll live (big western world metropolis)...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Home Chats

The difficult first love of a teenager :) Just a basic vent where I let out my emotions. Thanks for listening/reading.

There is this guy that I really like, but he has a lot of strugles and things going on in his life. He flirts with a lot of different girls, but that's like his personality. I have been talking with him for 9 months and...

LaureenVO

Xper 7 Age: 21

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Breaking up my friendship because I want more?

So I've been friends with a girl for about 6 months we've talked nearly everyday and we are very close, but i told her how i felt about her a few days ago and she told me she already knew but wasn't into me like that,...

Stallion87

Explorer Age: 39

Will I ever find someone?

So I always hear females saying things like for guys to be themselves and not change anything for girls they like etc I'm an average guy, 23 from UK and honestly not really had any experience with dating or talking...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Education & Career

Did the teacher ever catch you passing notes in class?

Man. In 8th grade, my so called friend and I were passing notes about our boyfriends and what we wanted to do with them on our trip to Vegas once we turned 21. Mind you, this was before that dirty ass hoe slept with both...

DizzyDesii

Editor Age: 31

Will she ever leave him for good?

If she breaks up with him this week, you can be sure they'll be back together next week. They've been on-and-off for almost 4 years, since she was 16. Now she's literally 20. Her friends and cousins, the ones she's known...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Toxic situationship destroying my mental health yet I can't walk away?

I've known this guy over 2 years. We dated consistently for a while, long story short his dad committed suicide and things turned toxic and inconsistent after that. I gave him the benefit of the doubt because of his...

Anonymous

(25-29)