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A competition made for you to filter out and find YOUR husband. What are the events and challenges are in the competition?

After watching the competition, you select the winner based upon your criteria. After a brief courting time up to 12 months, you are married or go into therapy to fix the relationship. Can only bail out if there was fraud. Avoids all the dating messes and ensures "commitment", you are married and that's your husband... no more complexity and dating confusion. Yes, you get to talk to each contestant along the way.

Contestants are chosen by your friends, family, expert judges, an AI match dating program and past contestants. All contestants are vetted for criminal records and meet basic criteria for career, finances, ethics, values, pet allergies, etc.. Basic stressors and compatibility.

What competitions and events would you want to see?

The cost for this service is $5000 to you and $1000 to each contestant. Contestants not chosen can compete up to 10 times to impress other mates, improving their chances of being chosen as a mate. Men can opt out if they are not interested in that woman. Men have control too.

This isn't much different from what people in India do... family selects options, you pick whom you want and figure it out. Not much different than nature, you just get more information and more commitment and cut the BS and wasting time.

Examples:

* Phone communication with women under stress

* Making dinner

* Critical thinking and decision making

* Moving heavy objects

* Hair grooming contest

* Hot dog eating...

* ETC...

Note the only winner... is the one you chose! Just because someone is stronger, doesn't mean he wins, or smarter.

As we know, most women find the vast majority of men physically unattractive due to not being born with physical traits out of their control. These traits include, race, height, skeletal frame, early male pattern baldness, hair colour etc. We also know that women in their prime tend to hyperfocus and date the hottest and/or richest men and often use sex to try to secure a relationship. Granted, some women are smart enough to lock on an average guy, who shows high potential to be a successful earner and gets him to commit to her early.

Now, for the men who this doesn't apply to, they are basically told by women to "work on themselves", which basically means to grind and make tons of money, so when women are ready to settle down (usually by their late 20s to early 30s), they have a nice retirement plan to look forward to. Women will use the fact that this group of men are sexually/romantically inexperience, as well as, desperate to reel them into commitment. Sex starts off enthusiastic to hook the man in to the relationship. Women are also on their best behavior and guys are lead to believe that this will be the baseline more or less.

Eventually, when an average man marries a woman, another layer of security is put in place that basically ensures the man pays a hefty price if he ever leaves the woman. This is usually in the form of spousal support an/or child support. Thus, women no longer need to have sex with you, since she has you shackled to a contract that says you provide for her in or out of the relationship. Sex is used as a reward for good behavior/out of duty and not because the wife generally wants to sleep with their husband. Sometimes, women will stop sleeping with their husband all together, despite his best efforts, and men feeling neglected often seek sexual relief else where.

Example, this sex therapist is able to make 500k/year by sleeping with men whose wives have stopped sleeping with them.