Hi, our relationship lasted for 12 months and was very turbulent. We picked fights a lot, we had a problem in our communication. He has a short temper and i have anxiety, i also tend to be controlling. It made him tired. He broke it off, he said he hates me and after a few days he said he would want to be friends with me and maybe after a while we will start dating again. I was very confused. The major problem is he only blames me and my behaviour for the breakup.