My ex lover wants to be friends?

[iwannaknowrn]

We broke up last month on the 24th. We start back talking last Sunday. We had sex and keep having sex but he doesn't want to get back with me yet? He too busy helping his sick mom. He told me yesterday the reason we broke up is because i wasn't keeping my jobs. I know im not perfect and i got things to work on plus im still young! But he dont work and dont want to! He constantly ask me to get his haircut , buy him weed and buy him clothes. He be on social media sharing freaky stuff trying to get other girls attention but when i do it its a problem? I really love him and wish he would change. I never cheated on him. Im submissive asf! I don't know what to do or what to believe

[jahaims]

You're 23 you should be able to hold down a job. Saying you are young is just an excuse. I don't know why you would want a lazy partner that doesn't work either. It is going to be hard getting anywhere in life as an unemployed couple.

[lgh1998]

Sorry but feel like he's just using you. doesn't sound like an amazing relationship anyway just be real and if he doesn't fully deserve you or make you happy then you shouldn't be with him

[lgh1998]

Thanks a lot for MHO 😁 DMs always open for anyone that seriously wants help/advice ❤️

[Reasonable_Oven]

So he is too busy but can find time to have sex? sure... It is very comfortable to keep you like that - you get what you want and she can not ask nothing more because you are not a couple anymore. Girl, you deserve better than that.

[iwannaknowrn]

He blocked me today cause i told him about himself n told him i can be w someone who actually wants me

[Reasonable_Oven]

And thats his loss, not yours. It is important to keep your pride and not to beg to be loved or treated nicely. You can not change him (and you shouldn't) so focus on yourself and moove on.

[iwannaknowrn]

Noted. Thank you for commenting. Your comments really helped me

[Luckycharms12]

Just wants sed

[iwannaknowrn]

U think so?

[iwannaknowrn]

Because im good in bed?

[Luckycharms12]

Can be single and have you also

[Luckycharms12]

I don't know never slept with you

[iwannaknowrn]

What should I do

[Luckycharms12]

That's up to you