Ex wants to be friends?

[Anonymous]

So my ex girlfriend had to end our relationship due to her past trauma being triggered from our relationship. She wants to stay friends as she heals and she also has said I didn't do any harm to her. However I just found out she has moved on quickly to a new relationship. Was I lied to?

[Anonymous]

It's possible that your ex-girlfriend was honest with you about wanting to stay friends as she heals from her past trauma, and that her decision to move on to a new relationship was not related to you or your previous relationship. People can move on at different speeds, and it's possible that she felt ready to start a new relationship even if she was not ready to continue with a romantic relationship with you.

However, it's also possible that she was not entirely honest with you about her intentions or her feelings. It's important to remember that you have the right to set boundaries and prioritize your own well-being in any relationship, including a friendship. If you feel uncomfortable or unsure about staying friends with her, it's okay to take some time for yourself to figure out what you need.

It may also be helpful to have an open and honest conversation with her about your feelings and concerns. Let her know how her moving on so quickly has affected you, and see if you can come to a mutual understanding about how to move forward in your friendship.

The decision to stay friends or not is up to you. It's important to prioritize your own feelings and needs, and to take whatever steps you need to take care of yourself.

[In_Trance]

Lame. Block her