Simply put, my girlfriend will not let me end our relationship… if I say, “I am done, you crossed my boundaries, I cannot continue in a relationship that I know is going to lead to failure…”, she simply says she is not leaving. She tells me to call the police, threatens with telling the police that I harmed her (which I have never done!). She is violent, aggressive, I feel controlled… she explodes at the slightest remark, action, or anything she can construe to treat me as though I am intentionally trying to hurt her. I am perceived as the source and cause of all problems!! It’s simply unmanageable, regardless of “hope” or “love”, or anything else that I now see as my personal delusion. And so I try to end things, always met with failure… lecturing… blame… threats… and outright refusal to leave. I feel abused! I feel trapped. I am not allowed to drink a beer, to do television interviews, to hang out with friends, or to even make up my own mind about anything… and if she does get mad enough to leave me then she returns begging, sensual, manipulating me back into submission. Last night I again told her, “I am done, I am exhausted, we are over…”. She asked me to pretend for one more night, she seduced me… she will not allow me to make any decisions once she feels like I have consented in the smallest way. I cannot make her understand! I am trapped… read my other questions for more detailed info…. How can I get my life back?
Girlfriend will not let me break up with her?
