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After a few days texting on tinder we took it to snapchat and pretty fast went out for a sushi-date that ended up being like 6 hours long. She thanked for the date when we said goodbye and like 30 minutes later she sent a snap saying the same thing again and then asked for when I was free next time… which unfortunately was some time away but we made plans to make plans when we knew better.

She said “good night, sleep tight” and in the morning she said good morning. However, this hasn’t happened every day. But she has reached out to me on snapchat every single day except for a few days when I reached out to her first. And she has always sent a selfie and asked how I am or how my day is as a conversation starter or something other very random. She basically never uses emojis, but I realised that she isn’t an emoji-girl… but she always smiles and looks in the camera. She tells me to be safe at work and sometimes asks if work was good when I got home.

to me this feels like she is very into me since I feel like these things are thing I would probably do when I am very interested in someone… you know like finding any way to start conversation which easily becomes “how was your day”. But I mean, I’m biased…

Like seriously, number one rule on a first date... DO NOT, talk about your past relationships. You are not there to rehash your past, it about trying to make a connection with the other person and building a possible future.

Like seriously, this woman would not get off your past relationship, every time I tried to make conversation go a different way it came back to her and previous heartbreaks.

She starts straight up crying, she is like I am so sorry, it not you, it's me. She excuses herself to go to the bathroom. She comes back and she is like,

"I am so sorry it is not you. Actually, you are being so nice and sweet, and you are very good looking, it's just that..."

"I interrupt her, it's that you are not ready to be dating yet period, right?"

she's says, "I am so sorry, but yes. I just had no idea, until right now."

I said, "Yeah, I get it. You're like the fourth woman I met online, that comes online and thinks they are not going to meet a real person and when they do, they freak out because they are not ready yet."

She says, " Yeah, you are right, but it's not you. I am so sorry; you are so nice and handsome..."

Again, I just say, "just stop, you do not think I do not know I am a nice person? You do not think I know that I am a nice-looking man? Like I have heard that shit my whole life, and I do not need to hear it from you. Obviously, it's not enough for you, so basically after weeks of talking and you assured me you were ready, you basically wasted my time today."

I walked her to the car and wished her well in life.

How many of you have had something like this happen to you?