Are women that are able to jump into relationships/get dates easily usually flirty & actually put themselves out there?

Anonymous

Or do they not? 28F, getting matches on the apps aren’t the issue it’s just always the usual: convos fizzling out, ghosting, not a good match, weirdos etc. I usually don’t message guys first, I swipe right on profiles first once in a while but I usually match with them once they like me first. I used bumble before almost 2 years ago & never again, the guy seemed normal but he was one of the most annoying people I’ve met & I only knew him for 3 days. The point I’m trying to make is: do you all actually put yourselves out there when matching with guys on the apps/in person or do the quality matches just come your way? Asking since you’re attractive & it’s usually assumed the guys will come your way… or am I generalizing? Can’t help but feel like good looking women don’t have to work to find someone

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Are women that are able to jump into relationships/get dates easily usually flirty & actually put themselves out there?
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