How would you say her interest level is?

[Anonymous]

After a few days texting on tinder we took it to snapchat and pretty fast went out for a sushi-date that ended up being like 6 hours long. She thanked for the date when we said goodbye and like 30 minutes later she sent a snap saying the same thing again and then asked for when I was free next time… which unfortunately was some time away but we made plans to make plans when we knew better.

She said “good night, sleep tight” and in the morning she said good morning. However, this hasn’t happened every day. But she has reached out to me on snapchat every single day except for a few days when I reached out to her first. And she has always sent a selfie and asked how I am or how my day is as a conversation starter or something other very random. She basically never uses emojis, but I realised that she isn’t an emoji-girl… but she always smiles and looks in the camera. She tells me to be safe at work and sometimes asks if work was good when I got home.

to me this feels like she is very into me since I feel like these things are thing I would probably do when I am very interested in someone… you know like finding any way to start conversation which easily becomes “how was your day”. But I mean, I’m biased…

110% no doubt, she is soo into you

50% maybe she is, maybe not

0% she is not interested

[Fromdusktilldawn]

dude, since Tinder is already really hard for guys and mostly just luck or being Chad brings success and you even got to a date... You got her dude

[Bethany22]

She's initiating contact with you. I don't see what the confusion is. Are you worried that she just wants free meals and attention or something?

[Asker]

No, not that she wants free meals since the culture here is that everybody pays for themselves unless you are part of the same household.
And I mean, she basically gives me attention.

But I get confused cause I have never been able to read signs before. Apparently my ex sent out obvious signs for a whole year without me even seeing it while I was in love with her the entire time. The only reason we actually became a couple was cause one of our common friends finally came to me and asked if I liked her and asked why I didn’t made a move since she obviously was into me… and another time a girl acted basically the same as my ex (as I saw it) but wasn’t interested in me. Now I just noticed that she did things I would do if I was very interested in someone, but I am not a girl 🤷‍♂️