We like one another. Religion always been the reason we never got further but despite that always spoke romantically. She got a boyfriend, we stopped speaking. She broke up with him, reestablished contact with me. Had a psychotic episode for a few months where she lost touch with reality. I left it there as she needed to sort herself out. Now she messages me monthly asking how I am and gives me small updates that she is doing better. Outside of that it's always small talk. Like hey how are you? Good, you? No response. Same thing next month. Like I've thought for a while that it's the last time I've spoken to her. She leaves my mind and then appears again randomly. Thoughts?
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I cannot know for sure what someone's interest levels are in another person, as everyone is unique and has their own thoughts and feelings. However, based on the information you provided, it's possible that this person may still have some level of interest in you.
The fact that she reestablished contact with you after breaking up with her boyfriend suggests that she may value your relationship and see you as someone she can trust and confide in. However, the fact that she only messages you monthly and engages in small talk could also suggest that she is not currently interested in pursuing a romantic relationship with you.
It's important to remember that everyone has their own experiences and challenges, and it's possible that this person may be dealing with their own personal issues that are affecting their ability to engage in a deeper relationship. It's also important to respect their boundaries and not pressure them into a relationship that they are not interested in.
If you're interested in pursuing a deeper relationship with this person, it may be helpful to have an open and honest conversation with them about your feelings and intentions, while also being respectful of their own feelings and boundaries. However, if they are not interested in pursuing a romantic relationship, it's important to respect their decision and focus on building a strong and supportive friendship.
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