How to raise a girl's interest level again?

[Anonymous]

How can I get a girl interested in me again? How do you regain interest and girls tell me what a Guy has to do?

[myty420]

it depends on the situation..just f*** it off completely in both scenerios honestly because I can tell you I have been put into the situation that other people below are talking about and I'm not at all impressed...in order to pull that move you have to actually have something that person can not live without or find in someone else! I hate when guys play games with my head and trust me I know when it's happening. if you have not been in contact with her than buy her a gift just to let her know you still care/think about her.

[bassman]

you're right..hanging back only works on girls with high interest level, and good attitudes. Girls with good attitudes don't start thinking he's playing games...they think..gee this guy actually has a life. Buy a gift for a girl who is showing low interest level is the biggest mistake guys make. If you don't like a guy...no gift is going to change your mind.

[myty420]

This is not so true! If a female knows your schedule or what you are about you can't just change that or use that as an excuse to get out of things you guys had always done together before she started getting bored...

[myty420]

And I said if you have not been in contact with her but are thinking about her, drawing her a picture, or buying her flowers will let her know you are still interested in her. Its also a way to say sorry for the long gap of absence. In case of the girl catching your bluff, you are making it out to seem as if that is her problem! It�s not a bad thing for a girl to be informed!

[Anonymous]

Are you with her constantly, or talk to her constantly? Usually girls will start gaining interest if you start pulling away. If you're constantly there, they have nothing to worry about and they will generally start losing interest. Act like you don't care anymore and pull away some. See if that changes anything.

[bassman]

another brilliant answer! This is awesome because I've been trying to tell guys this, and they will never believe me! Maybe coming from women will change their minds! I always say..when you're not around...gives a girl a chance to think about the guy, which raises her interest level. Most guys think the more they smother and talk to a girl..the more she will like him.

[Opinion Owner]

Definitely.. smothering a girl will make her lose interest AND can cause her to start taking advantage.

[bassman]

I try to tell guys that girls like to do a little of the chasing sometimes..especially if they like you. Pulling back a little gives girls a chance to chase..and can give the guy signs as to what her interest level in hi is.

[Opinion Owner]

Yep!

[Atheena]

Ignore her. It may be the hardest thing to do, but she'll be missing that attention and be looking for it again if you just ignore her. and by that I mean don't be a complete a**hole, but just act like you have neutral feelings.

[bassman]

You are freaking awesome! Its about time a girl gives a guy great advice! This is the best advice I've seen a girl give a guy on this forum. If I could give you 10 thumbs up...i would. That's why I told him to be a challenge...And yes..ingnoring is the hardest thing for a guy to do...and when I tell them to do it.. their ego gets in the way, and they tell me I'm crazy.

[bassman]

Well it all depends on how low her interest level has fallen. I can tell you that in general...without knowing more about your case... there are 3 big traits that women want in a man...which raises their interest level. Confidence, Control, Challenge. If her interest level in you has fallen too low (below 50%)...it will be nearly impossible to get her interest level into the 90's...EVER.

[myty420]

you'll probably confuse him with the word control! SHE MEANS CONTROL OVER YOUR OWN LIFE!

[myty420]

OOPS: I meant "he means..."usually the feed is flipped the other way..

[bassman]

yeah.. Control I'm talking about is made up of self control and patience.Someone who is slow to anger.Normally someone with confidence has control. For example... If guys start hitting on his gf...a guy will control is going to be calm and take other guys interest in her as a compliment without getting upset. I guy without control is going to flip out and what to whip somebody !