How to Get a Girl's Attention

[Anonymous]

I'm not ugly, most people say I'm cute or handsome, I'm not fat I'm athletically toned, I dress well and I'm not shy I'm actually outgoing

yet I never get ANY attention from girls, what gives ? :/

[IceDude]

Hm...

You need to understand what it means to be the attractive guy. One of the major goals of your life is to develop a naturally attractive personality.

In order to do this, you have to understand what women want from a guy. In other words, you have to act in a high status manner every time you meet a new girl!

So how do you know when you’re acting like a real man? The majority of these guys have the same handful of personality traits. By understanding and implementing these traits, you’ll create an attitude that almost all women love!

Here are some of these traits:

- Be Challenging - When you meet a woman, you want to be the challenge! While you’re leading the interaction and doing most of the talking, you want to subtly let her know that you can walk away at any given moment.

- Have an Identity - Having an identity is about truly understanding who you are! It’s about knowing what you want in life and constantly move towards it.

- Be the Fun Guy - As you know, a woman is an emotional creature. When she meets a guy, she enjoys that tingly feeling of sexual tension. The guy who can engage the emotional side of her brain is the one she’ll be attracted to.

And these are only 3 things that can help you to improve your game. If you want some more tips, check out link , it worked for me.

Good luck!

[ritaisle]

Are you ever mean to girls? Are you intimidating at all, or act like your better than anyone? Do you possibly not give women any signs that your interested in them, or the opposite, like smothering them. Or maybe, do you usually go to places with other guys who are attention hogs? Sometimes other guys get drowned out by a louder (sometimes obnoxious) guy. If none of the above, maybe you just had bad luck. Keep trying & remember the most attractive thing to woman is confidence.

[Asker]

Well I never see any girls checking me out or smiling at me or anything

[Asker]

And no I'm not mean to anyone, not just girls

[ritaisle]

Hmm, that's odd. But, sometimes women are better at hiding the fact that they're checking a guy out (I'm not one of the, lol.) I guess I'd have to know more about you to give you a good answer. I don't always have the best luck with men, & I'm not bad looking, but then again I'm shy. Maybe you should try approaching a girl, they could just be too shy to come up to you. Good Luck.

[tyt_2012]

Maybe they think your stuck-up?

If I think a guy is stuck-up I stay well away from him, I can` t stand people who think they are better than others and that the sun shines out of their bottom orifice

[Asker]

But you judge people before meeting the ?...

[tyt_2012]

I try not to judge, I really do but I` ve seen good looking guys act oblivious to attention paid to them by masses of girls and I just stand there wondering ` why bother, if he thinks he` s too good for other people`

[YobootyStank]

maybe your too handsome that its intimidating? lol maybe

[Artificial Intelligence]

Ways to Get a Girl's Attention

There's no one surefire way to get a girl's attention. But there are some things you can do to increase your chances.

Here are a few suggestions:

1. Be confident.

Girls are attracted to confident guys. So stand tall, make eye contact, and speak up.

2. Be funny.

Girls like guys who can make them laugh. So if you can crack a joke or two, you'll be in their good books.

3. Be interesting.

To really capture a girl's attention, you need to be someone she can have intellectually stimulating conversations with. So read up on current affairs, learn about new things, and share your opinions.

4. Be a gentleman.

Girls like guys who are polite and considerate. So hold the door open for her, offer to help her with her bags, and let her choose the restaurant you go to on your date.

5. Be yourself.

Ultimately, the best way to get a girl's attention is to just be yourself. So be confident, be funny, be interesting, and be a gentleman, and you'll be sure to catch her eye.

[Pinay_ako]

Many reasons:

1. You’re too handsome.
Females or anyone will be too intimidated to even look at you. You’re a sight to behold.

2. You’re intimidating.
Maybe you have that RBF look without even knowing it. I know even men have that too. So flash a smile when you meet people especially women, look them in the eye and smile 😃.

3. You don’t approach people FIRST.
Considering the first two reasons, you have to make the first move! This will give you the attention you want! How is a girl supposed to know you’re interested if you are waiting for them to approach a dashing handsome man like yourself! You said you’re outgoing, but how come you’re not getting that attention?

Good luck!

[Missgingles]

Sometimes when people see really attractive people they will assume they are already in a relationship. So it could be that.

[BlueScorpio]

Introduce yourself and strike up a conversation.

[altaboy]

Clown suits are often effective at garnering attention.

[malwins]

Dm ur pic