What does it take to get a girls attention?

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GlitterFairy16 · Accepted Answer

Honestly not trying so hard to get her attention. Girls can sniff out desperation as soon as you make eye contact with them.

Give her a little bit of eye contact but not a lot or it comes off creepy. Let her know you think she's interesting and have abit of banter with her.

Girls love guys who can make them laugh. For example i teach my boy mates to first compliment a certain type of accessory she's wearing, bag, jewellery, shoes etc. Then say something along the lines of "do you think them shoes would look good on me?"

More than likely she will giggle a little and think your funny or think your gay if she's not very sharp but most the time its worked for my friends with girls.

Just be best yourself around her with out showing off. Just be her friend for a while and slowly get her to hang out with just you one on one and tell her how much you like her.

emmily2396 · Accepted Answer

To be honest: Looks
Also, for a specific catergory of girls: money and social status, but I don't think you want girls like that

For those who already like your looks: being yourself and having a good and fun personality. Basically if you stand out from the crowd you will get more attention than someone trying to blend in. If you want a specific girl's attention nothing may work if you aren't her type looks&personality wise. But I doubt you want to create a fake image to impress her then have her be disappointed later.

Futureboy · Accepted Answer

In my own personal experience which is on going, I can only assume it is based mostly on looks.

I have struggled for years with shallow women online judging me based on a profile photo. I will fully admit I am not that good looking. However even if I start a conversation talking about shared interests etc I get no replies. I may just be unlucky but I do think looks are the most important thing women go for. Now I don't want women to feel sorry for me you all are free to judge me as you see fit, it just sucks that I have spent 10 odd years trying when women put little effort in themselves and can get guys landing in their own laps easily.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Don't pay them attention at all. Treat/see them as you would another guy. Some are bound to find you mysterious and therefore, they'll want to know you more. If the girls around don't do this right away, give it some time. Sometimes, they need to get crushed by a bad/abusive relationship or two to adopt this kind of thing. If they do come to you, keep the same mindset as if they never did. Keep them coming to you. Don't chase them, continue to focus on improving yourself regardless.

If they never do come, that is their loss, not yours. No girls' attention is mandatory for a happy, successful life. It's just a feel good bonus.

jennifer_bloom · Answer

I think the easiest way is to approach her when she is alone - than you don’t have to compete with others to stand out and if you want her to remember you, give her a useful piece of advice when you see her that she thinks she needs to remember what you said and also remember you - also stand alone when you are close to her so that she will feel compelled to approach you too and give the “I’m thinking vibe” after talking to somebody so she will respect you more for using your brain

Melaniii · Answer

These days it's money or being a fuckboy..

In general it's the energy and the the personality of the guy mostly grabs our attention.

Beside that if he is friendly, confident in making friends and intersting when it comes to talking ( not having limited subjects ) then yeah bingo.

Reaperbot666 · Answer

should just be confidence in yourself however.

most modern girls these days want a guy with. above average height, above average muscle tone, above average income, above average intelligence, above average fun zone size. which already limit choices to roughly 5-15% of guys.

Torari · Answer

Cocky confidence. That is the basic ingredient of attracting 99% of women. Everything else is just a bit of extra spice.

That doesn't however mean you'll be successful with every woman. There are 100 reasons a woman might not want to date you and only 2-3 of them are actually about you.

TheAfrikan · Answer

❕ You wanna get her attention well it is all easy.
⏩have a nice sense of fashion.
⏩Do keep a great cute eye contact on her eyes. (Do not be creepy though )
Once she stare back at you wink n smile.
⏩Be respectable.
⏩Have a nice style of walking, Be your own best version.

RachelGosnell · Answer

Sit close to her and mae your leg touch her leg suddle as if you didn't notice, if she looks in disgust say sorry and how I was a accident, also talk sexcualy on how you wanna love on a girl also talk on attractive attributes that you like that she has for instance if you were talking to barbie tell her how much you like blondes and girls with small butts

stupidgrls · Answer

1. A very hot body  2. A very confident personality 3. Give her attention but don't act desperate, that should do the trick.  Sitting in a corner fantasizing over her won't help

gaygod_19 · Answer

Get shirtless, wear red eye lenses, wear your pants on your head and wear your fav Donald duck boxer while hysterically shout your grandmother’s name

dmvgirl16 · Answer

It takes the effort it takes the way u approach a girl which is either by social media or in person but like just be nice and sweet with the girl but i wish i ever got attention from a guy

mrsxxx · Answer

To be kind and really interested in her. Show her that you care. One of the biggest turn offs for me is a man who expects me to chase him. I'll show no effort then.

cute_short_nerd · Answer

Voice that you like them. If ur too chicken, just be like “hey I think you’re cool, can we be friends?” Like... not that hard my dude.

AaronKrieger · Answer

Take care of how you look, find hobbies and maybe something you're passionate about, and stop acting like you care all the time

emerald_17 · Answer

Apparently spending a shit ton of time becoming a rapper, buying fast cars or renting them, and treating girls to lunch, but only being interested in they're friend. 🤷‍♀️ Basic bitch problems? I don't know

btbc92 · Answer

It depends on who's attention your trying to get. You already get attention from people. The real question is why and for what.

Jean-Marie_Céline · Answer

Being interesting, have something to yourself that draws people.

Unit1 · Answer

Money. Lots and lots of money. Driving a Ferrari. Wearing Gucci, lou vuitton, jimmy choo, chanel, st. Laurent.  or being very good looking.  or both.

jgokgotit · Answer

Money and luck. Gotta have both or you have no chance in hell.

_no_one_ · Answer

Self-respect, money, looks, way of talking, personality, fame, attitude, confidence, maturity, body.  Any one of em will be enough.

FreyaRed · Answer

Look good and have this special something that other guys don't have.

Zelda_5 · Answer

Be nice and don't be creepy. Talk about something like the weather. Just start with small talk

jasontheasian · Answer

Just pull out the garden snake and perform the legendary windmill. But im all seriousness, id say just look and be confident, and whatever you are doing, do it with a purpose and passion

DocT1977 · Answer

If you have to struggle to get someone's attention, they aren't into you anyway.

StephenCF · Answer

Dapper sense of style, especially with bold colours 🎩👔🕺

DWornock · Answer

For teenage girls; good looks, popularity, and athletic ability and to some extent money. For older women; money and good looks.

jassa669 · Answer

Do not do anything extra or over just meet her like you know her from a long time

OceanMelon · Answer

Be approachable, be smart, just walk up to us and say hi.

jhnny1331 · Answer

Walk into the room smile and if you should interact be polite but be yourself

smb930 · Answer

Say Hi, then walk away. She'll notice you after that.

CaptainSmartass · Answer

Being a millionaire with a huge thingy. Simples...

not329446 · Answer

Reach out and touch. Just remember you ear plugs and duck quickly.

Geminiheart69 · Answer

Ball kid.. a lot of balls, gotta be ready for rejection too, is part of the game.

Anonymous · Answer

girls in high school suck. When you get into college it'll get married.

rapfan107 · Answer

Money lots of it and being in good shape has worked for me!!

Anonymous · Answer

Looks. That's the most simple way to get an attention from girls. Just being honest

StarryCrossing · Answer

Being outgoing, engaging a conversation with her.

Anonymous · Answer

Have a winning personality.

Cherokeehp · Answer

You could just talk to her.

lanjinan · Answer

Confident, mature, generous, steady

CashMoneyElias · Answer

An expensive car and social status

ChefPapiChulo · Answer

Tell her she looks fat

Meatunnel69 · Answer

Loud noises and shiny objects

Anonymous · Answer

Money, nice haircut and smelling good would do

scott04sa22 · Answer

Throw paper balls at her. Lol.

kaymacd · Answer

cute smile, nice hair, TALK TO US!

CT_CD · Answer

Be good looking and tall

Jacked_Jones · Answer

Open your Wallet or your pants stall.

ask4any · Answer

Money and a big d**k!

FanticSoul · Answer

Long shining hair definitely works😂😂

Finchie40 · Answer

Just flash money lol

Anonymous · Answer

An expensive car is always a good bet.

Anonymous · Answer

Money, nice looks, big tool...

angeliquedevereux2 · Answer

Make her laugh

Anonymous · Answer

Either look like a model or have money

Anonymous · Answer

Money works damn good.

Anonymous · Answer

It depends on the girl...

Tattia · Answer

To be active

Kingfish3447 · Answer

$$$.

Iron_Man · Answer

Play sports

Aaron_Stone · Answer

Looks and charisma.

askmewhy66 · Answer

A large bulge

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