How do you get a really attractive girl’s attention?

Question

She’s used to loads of guys wanting her. How can you stand out without even talking to her

Datboi65 · Accepted Answer

Or how about this? Don't.

The best way to get a girl is to not try too hard like an idiot and embarrass yourself. Few things you should be doing already, like good hygiene, perfume and having a good haircut every 2 weeks is just standard stuff.

Your dress reflects your personality, but don't overdo it. Designer wear is a waste of money and makes you look like a goof. Wear simple plain clothes that fit well, not baggy oversized shit.

Workout and build muscle so you can have a nice and lean physique and your clothes can fit better. I find now that I'm in my best shape, the clothes I wear highlight my muscle definition very well.

That's the looks part done. The way you carry yourself shouldn't be too different from who you are. If you're an introvert, be an introvert. If you like animals, you like animals. Don't force change on yourself that makes it seem unauthentic because people can tell from a mile away. If you don't match then who cares? Plenty of fish in the sea. May be you find one that works for you, but don't act cringe just to get the girl's attention because it's definitely not gonna make you look good. You're gonna go from a 7 to a 4 real fast.

Keep it simple. Less is more, and being authentic matters. Confidence is built with time and the more confident you become, the more charismatic you are, the better your chances will be.

Finally, once you go through enough of that you will realize what really matters. A girl that doesn't match your values is not a girl that you want around. I don't care how pretty she is, she could be the most beautiful woman in the world but if she doesn't match your beliefs and your morals, that's not someone worth settling for.

Good luck to you.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I remember when this really attractive new girl joined my Office. Almost as soon as she walked in the door she was swamped by guys all trying their luck. I just watched and I do admit I was trying not to laugh at the spectacle. I was near by and just went to the corner to get a drink and immediately she looked over to me as I was drinking.

The funny thing is, without any warning she just walked away from all of the guys that were trying their luck and came and stood next to me. She looked like she didn't even know why she was next to me and all of the guys just went really quiet and looked kind of puzzled. Thus never be desperate , know your worth, and don't be a simp. If you know how to build attraction and have a good time that helps. Obviously being attractive also helps...

DermalPunch · Accepted Answer

Just go up and say hi with a smile and ask how she is and start a conversation as if she is your grandmother on the train. With respect and kindness. Get to know her as a person. She is a person. Not as "an attractive woman". That's coming from a place of othering and obejctification.

I am a very attractive woman and men never act relaxed and casual ever. I can feel them staring me down and burning a hole in my back l, front and side then the can't even hold eye contact or say hi.

Some will stare for months, a year and do NOTHING.

I always have a resting smile in my face. I've cultivated this.

Or the worst, they are mean to me because they are pissed at themselves for being insecure.

Alli39 · Accepted Answer

Honestly dude, if she's going to be intersted in you for real, she's going to be interested in your regardless of whether or not other people are interested in her. So chill. Have fun, engage, and treat her like an actual human being. Heck, if might even be refreshing for her to have someone  not  comment on her appearance right off the bat. Go for compliments focused on personality, actions, etc.

coachTanthony · Answer

Be creative.

Avicenna · Answer

Be funny is how I'd approach it, but be different in some positive way

Pinay_ako · Answer

Smile 😊 and look away

Glyn54 · Answer

Often the really attractive girls are lonely because guys are intimated by their good looks. We are insecure creatures and we think - "why would a fantiastic lookin girl like that be interested in me?"

Well, that is self defeating.

Instead assume that she WOULD like to spend time with her, compliment her, flirt with her, tease her, make her laugh, dress nicely, smell nice, clean your teeth often. Don't act like you are despeate - just relax and have fun and when you say goodbye tell them that you really enjoyed chatting to them. They can then reply that they did too in which case you can ask if they like to do it again or they may just say thank you and not give you an indiaction that they'd like to see you again.

Remember that even attractive girls can be shy and insecure as well.

shades777 · Answer

Depends on the culture, country and how you show up?
a man can be a 5/10 in USA but a 9.5/10 in Africa or 8/10 in Asia, depends if your target women is primed for you when you show up.

If you live in USA you can clearly see who gets the best hot women, fit men, handsome men or well paid men or any of that combination.

Most women are primed for that here, in other countries its more common to date and marry women 10-15 years younger than you, granted that your resourceful.

Static_In_The_Attic · Answer

You can always fart & that will get her attention however probably not in a good way. On the flip side if you want to get her attention do it by not paying attention to her in the first place.

HawkPerception · Answer

Everyone has a type of personality they resonate with more than others. There will always be some traits that draw her in more than others. Whether you fit that bill is another story. Just be yourself and don't take it so seriously. If she doesn't like you like that, then move on. Just talk to her.

Beautyblossom2 · Answer

Don't. Unnecessary headache. She already has a lot on her plate and there's a high chance you might get friendzoned. If she's a bit like that... Then money. You only have hope if you're someone whose looks she would NOT consider as 'unattractive' or `not worthy'.. Then only you may proceed further

haiuyu · Answer

Be a gentleman. Be nice to her. Help her with stuff like carrying things, opening door for her, etc. I do think in the end, girls would prefer a good, kind man even when he is not that handsome.

Meropatrick · Answer

Dont be a jerk be a nice guy. Attractive girls deal with Some jerks and they appreciat a gentleman. Dont be clingy if u feel she doesn't want ur attention keep distance. Take care of ur looks too. Attractive girls want an attractive guy too.

_SillyShoes_ · Answer

Actions + letting her know you like her and would take her seriously. You would be surprised what a long way honesty goes.

Billlewis · Answer

My philosophy is very simple -- if you want to date the woman who has the most gorgeous ass, you must first do the best job of kissing her ass.

BoopBoopBeep · Answer

Make her laugh and keep her engaged in interesting conversation and she'll wave away other men to come back and talk to you.

Sonorous · Answer

A because she's not going to be romantically interested in you unless she finds you handsome.

sheenagwapa · Answer

this is hard because it depends on the personality of the girl maybe send her food and flowers

Bricealan · Answer

Try sneaking up and tearing her blouse off. That will get her attention.

CoolCatMar1 · Answer

Look hot lol, be attractive, have a great vibe.

LiamJHayden · Answer

Be different from all the knuckleheads who only want to get in her pants. Engage her as a person.

Rangers · Answer

Have a lot of money, but they'll come to you for all the wrong reasons

KrakenAttackin · Answer

The hotter they are the more hypergamous and likely to cheat they are, per "Psychology Today".

OddBeMe · Answer

Go for her best friend. Make her new friend glow with happiness. Make her jealous. Dump the friend and get with the hot chick.  Boom.

robocop666 · Answer

By looking good yourself. 99% of the dating game is looks. It's not uncommon for lots women to show interest in me and many people see it. This is because of how I look nothing else.

Lokiion · Answer

Watch my guy ty he breaks down a lot of stuff about women

zagor · Answer

So is this girl someone at a bar? At work? At school? A random stranger on the street?

Subflics · Answer

All of this. If you're not attractive and throw her a smile she won't care. She'll step on you

Anonymous · Answer

Say something funny to her and then walk away. Always leave them wanting more and not understanding why it ended there.

Adaeva · Answer

Be exceptionally good looking an rich.

Nikki1989 · Answer

Humour always grabs my attention.

Reem12345reem · Answer

be funny , show dominance and confidence

Thot_Stomper · Answer

By completely ignoring her

BigDog1989 · Answer

Generally, money

Sparkie460 · Answer

Talk to her. Give her compliments

tomgrosse77 · Answer

Money, lots of money. They can’t resist.

Reorx · Answer

Withhold your attention & make her earn it.

Tstrbrainer · Answer

Don't give her too much attention

Wonderingguyy · Answer

All of the above.

Shamalien · Answer

Ignore her

Anonymous · Answer

A new Ferrari?

Jmmmfi4 · Answer

Have money

normandi · Answer

Wear a Rolex

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