How to attract a really pretty girl?

[Anonymous]

I need me one. Like when I see one I’m just speechless

By being really handsome

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[GuyAnswersGirls123]

Just talk to her like a normal person but try not to get in the metaphorical line. Like if there are what appears to resemble a line of guys waiting for their turn to talk to her, don't get in that metaphorical line. Have some dignity and be the one who acts normal and treats her like a normal person. Be the one who stands out that way.

The one really conventionally attractive woman I dated in my 20s was a swimsuit model. I met her in a nightclub and guys were practically taking turns to talk to her. One would dance from her from behind, she'd turn around and say something to him and move away. Next guy would approach her from the front and talk to her (couldn't hear what he said, but probably some pick-up line) and she'd give him the cold shoulder.

I observed this all in curiosity from afar as she rejected those guys politely or directly left and right. I did find her very eye-catching, but I didn't see the point of being the next guy to be rejected. First I had too much pride for it but also my ego isn't that big that I saw myself as having a better chance than all the rest of the guys taking turns. So I just sat down and mellowed out having my drink.

Then later on she actually sat right next to me and asked me how it's going which kind of took me aback. I don't know why she did that; maybe it's because after observing all that happened, I might have literally been the only guy that didn't try to pick her up that whole night. So we talked for a good while and she asked me if I liked Karaoke at which point I responded, "Hell yeah!" and then she invited me to go to Karaoke with her.

After that we started dating. I'm a computer nerd without much in the way of looks or charm but I think just being the one guy who didn't stand in that metaphorical line and just talked to her like a normal person might have been the one edge I had that night over every other guy. That might be the most helpful thing for you too if you adopt it.

[GuyAnswersGirls123]

Also don't compliment her looks so much and especially avoid generic compliments. She's probably heard that she's beautiful or hot or gorgeous a million times already from other guys. That's just going to make you seem like all the rest. If you're going to compliment her looks, do it in an extremely original and unique way, or just don't (I didn't) and compliment her for something deeper that other guys might overlook.

[GuyAnswersGirls123]

That said, I think the prettiest girls are kind of overrated. Their farts don't smell like roses if you know what I mean. 😁 They're still just human beings at the end of the day, not walking goddesses. It helps to remember that to avoid being so impressed, even if you want a looker. It'll help not to be so impressed by them.

That was another reason I didn't get in that metaphorical line besides thinking there's no way I have better chance that all these guys, many of whom were taller than me, better-looking, better-dressed, probably smoother; I thought she was definitely a looker but I didn't see that as a huge deal. It's definitely a gift to be so eye-catching but I wasn't that impressed. So it helps to try not to be so impressed.

[Asker]

I know what you’re saying but my eyes melt. Haha.

Thanks for making good points I appreciate it.

[GuyAnswersGirls123]

Cheers and good luck!

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

You have to be handsome yourself to match her level of attraction or have money to attract her but you don't want a woman who's eying your wallet.

[SueShe]

In other words, you are only interested in pretty girls that have probably no brains, intellect, character and personality. All that you are concerned about is the look of that girl but not her real assets.

What will you do in 20+ years when her beauty fades? Will you tell her to vacate the position so that you can get a new one? What kind of behavior is this? Certainly not the one of a person that cares but more the one of a very superficial personality.

How to attract a pretty girl? You don't because in order to attract a pretty girl, you have to have first other assets than the looks. You know which ones I am referring to. Do you have them?

[laly520]

u seen to only care about looks thus it won't work out for u

[Nikki1989]

If all you care about is her looks, you will probably always fail.

[Anonymous]

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