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I met a very handsome foreign man and immediately fall into him, however I am confused if he love me, use me or fool me?

On our first date, we immediately had sex and he was lashing out his failures and dreams in life. He was talking most about hi while I was only listening. After that, he became my boyfriend. He has health problem and so I did helped him in applying for a medical insurance. After a week, he ask to borrow money from me to pay for his house rent. And, I noticed when we went to eat in a restaurant he asked me to pay for all the orders and seems like he doesn’t care about it. A month after, he asked me to have a motorbike loan, cook and clean for him, rent car, register for business and have a bank loan or find investors. Me without hesitation did helped him a lot.

Few months, after I noticed him being demanding in meeting at night or sleeping over in his house. If I don’t, he gets overly mad and threatening me to find other girls. But if I comply to all his demands and wishes, he says to me that he loves me a lot and he wants to marry me one day and make a family with me.

However, while we are in a inclusive relationship and was able to met his friends and sister. I still noticed him Texting or chatting with other girls which he proclaimed as friends. I caught him cheating on bed for one time but I forgave him. He did really work on that, he tried to cook for me and Clean for me and treats me like a princess.

But few months after, I lost a lot of money due to a scam investment and had loans. I wasn’t able to give him anymore money. He got mad and most of the time insulting me useless. One day, I found him cheating again with another woman who has more money. And he left me for her. He said he already get what he wants in a girlfriend.

While laying in my bed trying to sleep I heard my dad get a call. It was 11:30pm but I didn't think much of it until I heard a woman's voice. I realized they were video chatting and that instantly made me suspicious.

(Bit of a backstory here, when I was 12 years old I caught my dad cheating. I saw him texting a woman, calling her baby and saying some explicit things and I told my mom. They argued a bit, but then it never came back up. My mom's not the type to forgive cheating so he probably convinced her that I didn't know what I was talking about.)

So when I heard this woman on the phone with him, my mind instantly went back to that moment. I confirmed it was definitely an affair and with the same woman. They told each other "I love you" and that made me even more sick. I'm 17 years old, so I know for sure this has been going on for at LEAST 5-6 years. I'll be 18 soon and my brother just turned 15, in 3 years my parents won't have any kids in the house and that makes this even more difficult.

Do I tell my mom again, do I confront my dad first, or do I stay out of it completely? This has been weighing heavily on me since I was 12 and it completely ruined my relationship with my father. I don't think I can hold all of this in again...